Nita87
30Rome, Italy
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My self-summary
This is quite old and I keep coming back to delete my profile, but then I see all those compliments and nice messages...and I leave it.. So I'll stop pretending now and just see if it needs any update, a billion years later :)

Most people say they don't really like to fill out profile pages and make descriptions of themselves, I, on the other hand, actually enjoy doing it. First because I just like filling out blank spaces, I can't stand blank spaces :) And second because trying to define myself with a few words, trying to find what's most important or characteristic about me, very often leads me to finding something new about me, or something I haven't noticed before, somehow it helps me get to know myself better. And I really find this important, because understanding yourself is the only way to understand other people too, and thinking about it, what's more important than really knowing and understanding the people in your life, and, therefore, allowing them to do so with you.

So, what I do know about me...
I consider myself a good person, although I don't really know the definition of a good person, and I'm not sure whether I am one or I just wish to be one. I've done both good and bad, I've done right and wrong, so I guess I can just hope the good has been more and it can make up for the bad.

I tend to be very devoted to the people I care about, I give myself out fully and without asking anything in return, and doing so actually makes me happy. But I know I am secretly selfish too, and sometimes I do wish there would be someone ready to do the same for me, the way I do it for others. But I've learned to hide those desires, it's easier and less disappointing.

I present myself as a realistic and practical person, I pretend that I think things through before I act and people know that they can count on me, but they don't always trust me, especially if they know me well enough to know that I'm also a dreamer and I have an imagination that sometimes blocks out the real world. So although I am practical, I am also impulsive and spontaneous, and I actually too often act before I think, so it makes it hard for me to trust myself sometimes, I never know what would be the next crazy/dumb thing that can pop out of my mind.

I realize it's a bit contradictory, but I actually feel like there are two totally different persons living inside of me, one is really nice, polite, sympathetic, honest, the other is more cynical, cruel, selfish and calculative. They are in a constant conflict, arguing and fighting inside my head.
The problem is, I'm never sure which one is winning.
(I know it sounds like something I might need to get help for, but well, I still don't hear strange voices in my head or see dead people... so there might be hope for me still ^_^)

Well, I have updated nothing.. All of the above is still quite true, although I have become a bit more homey, I take less to none stupid risks and I enjoy the comforts in life, like vacations and cake. But everything else is still pretty accurate. Don't know if that's a good or a bad thing.. Was I already perfect 10 years ago so there's nothing more to improve, or am I stuck and not evolving at all?
Be back in 10 more years to find out.
What I’m doing with my life
Building a future.
I’m really good at
I have some examples now:
- Cooking
- Baking
- Learning new languages
- Being lazy
- Making people happy
- Making people mad
- Pretty much anything I do with desire and put some passion into it, I get good at pretty quickly....
The first things people usually notice about me
LOL, this was stupid...
I don't know what people notice, really...
I'm 30 now and I have slowly receded to normal-colored hair, normal-size and color nails, light make up and completely lost the rave/hip-hop style clothes (dammit, I miss those clothes...), so I guess they just notice me now...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(a)Stephen King, Dan Brown , Agatha Cristy ,Barbara Delinsky, Janet Evanovich, Silva Mike Gayle ,and others who I can't think of right now....

(b)"Back to the Future" 1st and 2nd part,"How High", "IT",Traffic, "Titanic, "10 things I hate about you";"Whole 10 yards" "Memento" , "The butterfly effect", Beautiful Mind, Die Hard etc....
I'm into TV shows lately :) So... One Tree Hill, Prison Break, House M.D., Supernatural, The X-files, Entourage etc.

(c)Dj Tiesto,Dj Tatana,Dj Aligator,Dj Quicksilver,RMB, Conjure One,Limp Bizkit,Linkin Park,The Offspring, methodman&redman, nirvana Astral Projection, Talla 2XLC Pink, Anastacia, Placebo etc ;)

(d) Meat, I eat all the meat :)
Six things I could never do without
1.My picture albums, to keep my memories alive...

2.Dreams, as a way to build the future...

3.Oxygen, (I bet you know why)...

4.Brain, to keep me balanced...

5.My family

6.Love (or at least something i believe is love)

Cheesy as shit but still true :D
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Imaginary problems....
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have typical Fridays... I don't have typical any day, life's too short and I'm too inconsistent to make real habits of any kind...

Oh, here we go, finally something I can actually update..
On a typical Friday, I'm either out for dinner or at a friend's house for dinner, or just basically having dinner.... Yep, haven't been to a discotheque since they were called discotheques...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I enjoy seeing all of these messages and likes and general interest, it strokes my ego real good, so thank you all :)
You should message me if
If you're looking for an online friend and if you have interesting stories to tell :)
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