38 Tucson, United States
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My self-summary
For starts, you learn more about reading how I answer the improved match questions, and the comments I added to public questions. Than you will reading some self-description that I tried well drawing a complete mental block regarding what to put. I am just at writing these things. Also the comments section of those answer, is probably less guarded then the writing in this section.

To add more to this, I have a shyness problem; it’s probably something I think of less of a problem, and more of a wall to keep the world out. Until I am comfortable with someone, I have trouble opening up or interacting with people.

I try to get to the gym two to three times a weeks. While trying to avoid busy times, its sucks waiting around someone to finish using the equipment, that you are hoping to use, and allows you to cool off.

Other than that, my weekend tend to be uneventful most of the time. Most of my friends, have up and moved out of Tucson, or we have grown apart over time. This has been creating a very dull social life, and I have largely been struggling in making new friends. It’s very depressing.

I am different, unique, and bored
What I’m doing with my life
I currently work with enterprise level server software, mainly with international clients. I how also been independently working toward server 2008 enterpise admin cert (renamed MCSE).

5 Years ago I quit smoking cold turkey. My will power has not broken down once. I even really proud of the fact even when drunk, I’m not tempt to smoke. However I spent the first year after quitting ballooning up in weight. I must have put on 30-50 pounds of the wrong kind of weight. I always been on the heavy side, it was getting out of control. I stopped drinking soda, started eating smarter, and begin working out on fairly regular basis. Two years later, I have lost the additional weight I gained, and some (not all) of what I had before, and I am much stronger than I have ever been in my whole life. I still have more work to do, but I know I will get there.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably not great. I’m awful at interacting with people I don’t know most of the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: I managed to finish the Malazan Empire series just a little bit before the final Wheel of Time book was released. Back to back conclusion to epic fantasy series. While I do read some Sci-Fi, fantasy is a later area of interest. Any series or authors, that you would recommendations? Also pick up tech books from time to time, when I am really looking to understand something.
Movies: Lord of the Rings, Avenegers, ect.
Music: Melodic/progressive metal, has really spoiled everything else for me. Bands that live the most in my player, would be Blind Guardian, Dream Evil, [Iron Maiden]], and Iced Earth. Lately Amon Amarth album has been dominating my player.
TV: My favorite current TV shows would be Arrow, Castle, and Game of Thrones.
Food: MEAT!
The six things I could never do without

Independent thought
The interweb, as a main source of information.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That really depends, on what I want to be doing, at said time..
On a typical Friday night I am
At home reading most night, I also enjoy going downtown, when I can find one who is up for going along.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wear a hat because, I hate that I am going bald. I miss having long hair.
You should message me if
If we have been talking at least a little by message, please don’t use IM. There is a very good chance that this site is open on a tab, which is hiding in the back round for hours on end, and I’m just unaware, that you sent the IM.