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My self-summary
How does one summarize themselves here? Hmmm. I'm a bit of an old fashioned type of guy mixed with a healthy dose of the new type of man emerging. I was born and raised in Texas, so I believe in hard work, compassion, and having a loving attitude towards those around me, and having good manners. I believe in the good in people, rather than point out the bad. Society trains us to do that enough as it is. I try my best to live by the four agreements (wonderful book!). I try to keep my ego out of things and do what's best for everyone, yet I'll take the stand that is necessary for you and possibly tell you what you don't want to hear at times.

What I don't do: Wear affliction or ed hardy, flex in the mirror and put it up here, type like this: wutz ur nmae? (could you imagine if someone actually showed up at your door and phonetically spoke like this?). I'm not cheap, nor do I cling. I'm no thug.

For fun: I love hitting a great meal, going to movies, karaoke, occasionally hit a bar or a club (no drinking for me, but I still enjoy it), commit random acts of love, write, make the world a better place, do new things! I won't ask you to do anything crazy but I certainly won't back down from the challenge.

What I'm looking for: a healthy, IN SHAPE, compassionate, self sufficient woman with a flirtatious side. I prefer someone who is alive and will make me feel alive as well!
What I’m doing with my life
I work in film production, as well as personal training, and for my family's natural gas company in Texas. I'm also training to be a speaker and a life coach currently. I keep busy, having many passions!
I’m really good at
Sports - I'm an athlete still. I enjoy bodybuilding and olympic weightlifting. A bit of crossfit too. I'm also a great listener. I'm pretty good at writing as well. My friends also comment a lot about my tenacity when I set my mind to something. And most of all, a damn good person to my family and friends!
The first things people usually notice about me
My build. Or my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is a difficult one. I'm film snob and a foodie by heart. I read a lot. For current books I'm enjoying I Had It All The Time, Raymond Feist's fantasy, George RR Martin, and a few other books that I pick up and put down randomly. My favorite food is any guy food - steaks, barbecue, etc.. I also love cajun. Favorite movie is just too tough - but here's some current ones I enjoyed: The Hobbit, Silver Linings Playbook, Argo. I also LOVE indie & foreign films. Favorite TV at this time is Dexter, Californication, Shameless, Breaking Bad, and a few others.
The six things I could never do without
Moving past the obvious (food, water, air), I would hate to be without my computer & internet, my iphone, exercise, a good support system of family and friends, my car, and sunshine.

The bigger question is this: what if I were forced to live without those? Ask yourself that about your list. I find the question intriguing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where my life is going. Where 'she' is. What the greatest good I can do for the world is (and as of recent, I do have a plan!)
On a typical Friday night I am
going to a movie, a nice dinner, perhaps a bar (although I do NOT drink), or hanging out at home. I can be a bit of a homebody, but I just need a little push...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that asking this sort of question scares me.

I'm terrified of Hello Kitty. Long story.
You should message me if
If you think we'd hit it off. I'm dead serious about the above in what I'm looking for - I work out, and even when I take time off I don't get truly out of shape. I ask that you do the same. So if you are overweight, a smoker, or just live a lifestyle that isn't healthy, we won't work. If this offends you, I'm sorry. I'm sure you have your standards as well.
Not looking for: self destructive, ADHD, codependency, drug & alcohol issues, & spineless women.

Good luck in your search!