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My self-summary
So its about time for an update.

(The username was made a while ago when I was bitter and I refuse to pay just to change it.)

Hello people of OkCupid. My name is Jerome but I go by Jay. Feel free to call me either. I'm here looking for friends and maybe more down the road. I'm a very open book and a nice down to earth guy. I'm very grounded and a well rounded person. Feel free to message me and lets talk.

So I do like hanging out, Also like video games, movies, road trips in which I don't have to drive lol. If you want to game with me or just stalk the games that I play just ask for my Gamer tags. I have both PS3 and Xbox.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently working a dead end job trying to refocus on what I want to do in life. I figure I have until I'm 37 before I'm totally screwed.
I’m really good at
listening, and giving advice... most of the time.

Love making people laugh. But don't ask for jokes I'm kinda natural. But once I get started I'm good for a while!

Also, I'm pretty good at seeing the big picture. Whether it's at work or personal life, I always try to see where things are going at the possible end results.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a nice guy... for a big black guy lol. Depending on my mood or where I'm going, it could be the hat that I'm wearing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Since everyone actually list these things i guess i will too.

I don't really read books. But I did start collecting comic books. They have to count right? Recently I've rediscovered audio books! So I can gladly say I'm currently listening to all 5 books from A song of Ice and Fire!

I'm way all over the map for me to list all of the movies I like so I'll just name a few: All of the X-Men movies, Harry Potter was good, Horrible Bosses, Despicable Me was just adorable, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, The Skelton Twins, This is Where I Leave You, The Expendables 2, there's tons more but you get the idea.

T.V. Shows:
Big Bang Theory, Family Guy, Boondocks, 1 girl 5 gays (that show is just great), Modern Family, The Middle, House, Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead Breaking Bad and so on lol.

Mostly Hip-hop and R&B. But my iPod is full of music that you might not think I'd have. My top 5 favorite artists right now... Kanye West, Childish Gambino, Kendrick Lamar, Jay Z and Pusha T. I really don't like most of what's being called rap music today.

I love pasta. Hands down if your into pasta dishes well then... lol. Oh and there's something about grilled cheese sandwiches that is just comforting.
Six things I could never do without
1. My glasses
2. Sleep
3. Music
4. Common sense
5. My car
Last but not least
6. My mom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Normally it's music. Lately trying to find a way back to a comfortable state of living.

The fact that I really want to move to the Seattle, WA area. I've never been there, but I've always wanted to live there. Portland, OR or London, England also good alternatives.
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday nights I'm at work. Such is the life of a second shifter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This needed a change. I'm pretty open so all you would have to do is ask me what you want to know. But here's a few things just to spark conversation: I have 1 tattoo for now, I really want to get into photography and I highly envy those who are photographer's, I like learning about space, as of today (2/1/15) I'm currently letting my hair grow out so I can start growing dreads and I'm a huge flirt.
You should message me if
You're bored and want some one to talk to. I'm free and open to talk to anyone. I'm pretty much an open book.

You can school me on photography and astronomy.

You think you're any good at Madden and want a challenge.
The two of us