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My self-summary
I never know how to start these things. I'm loud, I'm funny, and I'm easily bored. I'm a storyteller, and I'm always looking for my next anecdote. Is it crazy and likely to get someone hurt? Let's fucking do it.

I am polyamorus, and I live at home with my wife Katybelleou812 and seven month old son. It seems important to say that early on. We just moved here from Denver, where I have lived my entire life. I don't know anybody down here outside of my wife's circle, so I'm on OKC looking for new connections - both romantic and platonic.

I don't believe in settling down just because I'm expected to. I don't smoke (anything) but I drink like a fish. Whether I'm hitting the town, crashing a house party, or just holing up for the night with friends, I'm always looking for the best night possible.

I'm loud, usually the loudest in the room, but I don't hog the spotlight. I love going tit for tat with people, and I'm great at making the whole room laugh. I'm usually the life of the party, but sometimes I'm just up for hiding in a dark corner and talking about neat shit.

I can be intense, but people who know me well are always quick to reassure strangers that I'm kindhearted. My opinions and ideas mean a lot to me, enough that I have been known to shout them from the rooftops (or, more commonly, at people). I am a feminist, and a straight-ally, and I have little patience for anyone who has a hard time with equality.

I'm a musician, but I haven't recorded or performed anything in months - had a terrible band break-up. I write poetry, fiction, and long-winded blog rants, and recently broke 12,000 words on my novel - which I'm pretty proud of so far.

I love learning about new people, it's the writer in me. Discovering the unique quirks about a person, learning why the do the things they do, it's one of my favorite things. I'm looking for someone who I click with, who I can sit down with and talk and rant and debate until we can't keep our eyes open anymore.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a full time daddy to my infant son, and I'm looking for new friends to share my new life with.

I'm always looking for excuses to dress up, to go out and flirt. I love getting to know someone for the first time, learning about their history, dreams, and desires.

I want to meet someone I'm going to enjoy being around, because I've always believed that new experience is food for the soul.
I’m really good at
Brightening peoples moods, telling a joke, telling a good story, learning and understanding new and alien things. I'm funny as hell, and I have a loud, booming laugh. They say adults laugh less than 20 times a day, while kids laugh around 300 times - in that sense, I'm still a child, because laughing is something I'm always doing.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair and style of dress, followed by my wit and attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
You'll have to talk to me about books. I love reading, but I don't love writing about reading - I feel like I'm going to come across as either pretentious or shallow if I discuss the wrong kind of book (I'm probably both, anyway).

I rarely dislike a movie, and will give anything I haven't seen a watch. I will say that horror is by and far my favorite genre - of any medium. Always has been, since I was a toddler watching Hellraiser and Freddy when my parents weren't looking. I will say that I'm a sucker for found-footage movies, I will watch ANYTHING in that style, and I don't know why.

As for music, it just needs to fit my groove, though I tend to lean towards electronic and dance. I was raised on metal, but I love country, disco, pop; name a genre and it's probably represented on my playlist. I'm a freak for music, and I'm always looking for new ear candy.

If you can't tell, I'm not picky about anything, I love keeping my palate broad.
Six things I could never do without
1. Music
2. Drinks
3. Strangers who make sense to me
4. My loved ones
5. Stories (be they movies, books, or anecdotes from friends)
6. Touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Revolution, God, the human condition, sex - fun stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
out. Drinking, dancing, and with good friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have to be told goodnight, or I can't sleep.
You should message me if
You enjoy makeout sessions as much as deep conversation.

Even if you can't think of anything to say, just say 'hi.' We can find something to talk about.
The two of us