A little trivia: I grew up near Detroit, Michigan. I collect clocks. I love roller coasters but haven't been on one in a long time. I play several musical instruments (poorly). I love movies and music, and I wish I were a better actor or musician. I have studied language, linguistics, and typography extensively. I have the fearlessness and attention span of a Jack Russel terrier.
I’m married to Lilith_nine, who I met right here on OkCupid. Yay! We both have experience with open/poly relationships and want to meet like-minded folk for dating or friendship.
I am playful, talented, and kind.
Personally: People find me easy to trust.
I also love quirky stuff: music like Cake and Danielle Dax, movies like Grosse Pointe Blank and The Name of the Rose, shows like Fringe and Leverage.
Die Hard is the best action movie ever. Lawrence of Arabia is my favorite epic. Well, that and Ferris Bueller's Day Off.
Recently I've been listening to Silversun Pickups excessively. And the Les Miserables soundtrack. And the stuff they play at the roller rink.
• boxer shorts
• laptop with an Internet connection
• iPhone & iPad
This could be a long list. I keep a lot of irons in the fire, and I never stop thinking.
• more whimsical than sarcastic
• more curious than certain
• more supportive than critical
• more adorable than elegant
• more optimistic than cynical
• more wicked than innocent
• more kind than cool
All the things on the right are good too: I like edgy humor, confidence, dressing sharp, and so on. I just don't want those things to overshadow what's really important to me, like generosity and tolerance and mirth.
You should message me or Lilith_nine if you agree that we are an adorable couple and would like to meet either or both of us for coffee or drinks!