30Ottawa, Canada
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My self-summary
I'm an adventurous, thoughtful person. I always feel at home when those around me are comfortable. Always the catalyst, I'm not afraid to say things like they are and encourage change for the better. Often smiling, I'm the guy who comes up with the zany (often impromptu!) ideas, and who looks at the details.
I enjoy reading, having deep conversations with my friends, and spending time outside. I'm a kid sometimes, I'm responsible sometimes, and I'm always there for those I love.
What I’m doing with my life
I regularly have great conversations that lead to unexpected improvements. I pray and keep my friends on their toes. I am consistently thinking about ways to break internal and external barriers to improve myself and the world. Taking action on those ideas is the hard part.
I’m really good at
Being a muse for my artistic friends
Taking advice
Giving advice
Being serious (when I need to)
Being silly (the rest of the time!)
Giving massages
Making friends
Being gracious
Being patient
Cooking and baking
Playing cards/boardgames

I want to be better at:
Quoting/Reading the Bible
Business building
The first things people usually notice about me
I asked my friends what they noticed first about me and they say that I'm handsome and full of amazing facial expressions. Although it is nice to hear, I didn't expect those to be the first things! They then say that I'm really positive and sincere, so they immediately feel comfortable around me. They give me the biggest compliment when they say I have created a safe space.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love all kinds of pick-me-up stories and clean deep-belly funny jokes/scenarios. I'm a big fan of anime, sci-fi, and heroes.
I like so many kinds of music and food that using those to find a match won't really be helpful, other than I hope you like Asian food. I'll always try something once - maybe I'm too optimistic for my own good.
Six things I could never do without
My faith, my friends and my family are the most important to me, but since they aren't things I still get six more:
1 - Hygienic items
2 - A safe comfy sleeping space
3 - The ability/space to create food
4 - Nature (usually stars, waterfall/beach, open fields and climbable trees/forest, however a potted plant has to do sometimes)
5 - Technological items at my dispoal
6 - All my senses including the 6th, 7th and others I have, plus needing the discernment to figure them all out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to help others & how to be less hard on myself. Doing instead of saying.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with my partner, beginning to understand we have sequestered ourselves and need to invite others over or visit more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I always sleep nude. Actually, I love being nude when it's hot out. Favourite time to be nude - tanning on the sailboat or when possible the seaside beach. Here's another one: I typically expect to be asked out because I'm not aware you like me!
You should message me if
If you prefer to be friends, I'm there. If you like someone who is easygoing, talk to me. I won't bite.
If you are open to hanging out or chatting - I am a smart, kind guy who loves people. Period. If you enjoy casual or analytical conversations, about anything, I love to get to know others, I just have no inhibitions to "taboo" subjects.
If you are sensible, and enjoy cuddles/want to be close.
If you're willing to encourage eachother to succeed.
If you don't mind me calling it like it is. I'm truthful, sincere, and interested in helping my friends be the best they can be. Last but not least - if you are OK with a guy who admits his imperfections and works on them.
The two of us