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My self-summary
Looking at my last edit, I don't update this often enough! I will try and stay relevant. The big question, what am I looking for? I am on one side, looking for that special someone that I can share my life with. I am, historically, a relationship guy. However on the other side, I don't expect this special person to just fall into my lap, so I am willing to date and learn about each other before getting serious.

I find confidence sexy. Intelligence too. I would like to find someone grounded and with a "good head on her shoulders" but would also like someone willing to try new things. Physical attraction is still important but there are a lot of little things that I find sexy. This is one place where confidence comes in. I would like someone supportive in return as I am a very supportive person. Independence is also attractive in some ways too.

I am allergic to cats, but I do like dogs, so I don't want to waste your time if you can't live without your cat(s). I don't have a dog currently, but once the backyard is fenced in, I am seriously considering getting one.

Normally, I can be shy at first but that usually means I'm interested. This may differ when meeting someone (from) online, as I've never done this before. Get me on the right topic though and I will be hard to shut up. I do understand the term of chemistry, and not in a scientific sense (although I understand that too!) I have nothing wrong with "comfortable silences". I've been told that sometimes I beat to a "different drummer" and I am sometimes proud of that. I think it takes all kinds to inhabit the world. However some might say I'm quite normal. I like staying at home with a good dinner (I can cook, but would like someone to cook with rather than for) and any form of home entertainment (movie, tv, games) but it's also nice to go out as well, patios, movies, dining, clubs, etc. I'm not the camping type, but a cabin wouldn't be out of reach (no I don't have one, just saying).

I have great interests in the arts, specifically performance arts, which include film. I'm drawn to science fiction/fantasy but can enjoy anything from a silly comedy to a chick flick as well. I love basketball and soccer, and still like baseball but what I think would be most fun is sharing your passion for something. Influence me. Even trying a new restaurant can be a great thing.

Although I call myself Catholic and Christian, I would not push something like that on you unless you were interested, just please don't push Atheism on me. At this point in my life I believe its more of a personal spiritual thing, and I highly doubt I would change my mind.
What I’m doing with my life
Taking a serious plunge into working where I've always wanted to, film/television and theatre, as an actor, writer and director.
I’m really good at
Listening, and getting to know someone. Also breaking things down and analyzing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes? Height? Demeanor? Stature? Presence? I've never really asked.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Clash of Kings and Storm of Swords. Snow Crash. Daughter of the Empire series.
Movies: so many to mention, from Lord of the Rings to Magnolia to Glengarry Glen Ross, any Tarantino, also any Redford directed. Red Rock West, to Fifth Element, to The Game.
Shows:Lost, BSG, Big Bang Theory, Game of Thrones, Sense 8, Daredevil, Stranger Things
Music: I used to DJ so I really like a lot of music. I tend to lean towards R&B, pop, dance, house, dubstep, but really appreciate rock classics, and even classical.
Food: so many different and unique tastes and combinations. For example: a good steak, mushrooms, arugula, fish, tiramisu, wine, sashimi, a good Pad Thai, Asian, Italian, French, Canadian, Spanish, and the list goes on
Six things I could never do without
Family and friends, which really, combined is basically companionship.
Good food, which nourishes the soul as well as the body.
The arts, (theatre, music, visual) to expand the mind.
Nowadays, the internet, although any form of information will enrich the mind.
I personally need some faith. The spirit has needs, even if that need is to be an atheist (which I'm not). Call it morality if you will.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my next project!
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I created this profile a long long time ago when I didn't take it quite seriously. Who knew this site would grow? I can only change the name by upgrading (paying) to do so, which I don't find worth doing.
You should message me if
What I'm looking for is a woman who is confident, intelligent and independent, also affectionate, fun and considerate as well. I'm happy to date, and if you're looking for something serious, I would also be interested if we were suited for each other as well.
The two of us