OKImperial
30Cerritos, United States
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My self-summary
Ethnicity: 1/2 Japanese and 1/2 Chinese
Education: BA Psychology (CSUF), MA Education - Counseling (SJSU)
Occupation: High School Counselor (Currently job hunting. Have been working in the SF Bay Area for the past few years. Relocated to my home region of SoCal and looking to re-establish my roots here.)

I enjoy going on new adventures, revisiting old favorites, and creating great memories. The bar and club scene is not really my thing. I much rather be out and about exploring and enjoying the area around me or just spending some relaxing time inside.

Ideally, looking for a relationship that has potential to grow into something lifelong, but would not mind making some friends along the way. Looking for someone who knows what want to do with their life and is working towards that goal or already achieved it. Honestly, I have not dated much. When I have dated, experiences have always been good and never have gotten nasty but ultimately gone our separate ways. Now that my professional life is starting to take-off I'm looking to establish a meaningful and life-long relationship.

Words that describe me:
Down-to-earth
Family oriented
Straight-edged
Thoughtful
Ambitious
Funny when I can be/serious when I need to be
Great conversationalist
Old fashioned
Caring/nice
Somewhat nerdy
Reliable/Responsible
Athletic
Smart

Likes:
Playing tennis
Lakers & Clippers (Basketball)
Kings and Ducks (Hockey)
Video games (less time to enjoy them these days, but still a fun pastime)
Fishing (Goal: catch a river monster, like Jeremy Wade)
Driving
Camping
Hiking (Goal: do a multi-day hike like in the movie Wild)
Sightseeing
Exercising
Swimming
Beach
Nature
Museums
Aquariums
Movies (as you can see below, I like marathoning movies)
Inspirational quotes
Dream analysis
Random facts
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to keep a healthy balance of working, learning, socializing, exercising and relaxing.

High school counseling. I help my students maximize their high school academic and social potential and getting them to where they want to be in life.
I’m really good at
Always looking for interesting places to visit

Repetitive work - I find it relaxing, haha

Remembering random facts

I guess I'm good at answering questions too because OKC ran out of questions to have me answer.
The first things people usually notice about me
People think I'm younger than I really am. Average age that I'm getting is 23. Youngest I got was high school age. I take it as a compliment :).

Also, that I'm a male counselor, which there are not many of especially in education.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book:
*Currently reading "The Clocks" by Agatha Christie*
Saving Fish From Drowning
The Maltese Falcon
"Redwall" series
I also enjoy reading about Behavioral/Social/Developmental Psychology
This section is a bit underdeveloped compared to the others. Got any good book recommendations?

Movie:
Inception
Daniel Craig's James Bond series (must be seen as a marathon)
The Prestige
The Dark Knight Trilogy (must be seen as a marathon)
Lord of the Rings Trilogy (must be seen as a marathon)
The Matrix Trilogy (must be seen as a marathon)
John Wick and JW:Ch.2

Show:
*Currently watching: Hell On Wheels*
The X-Files
Frasier
24
Lost
House
CSI
NCIS
Criminal Minds (#1 favorite TV show)
Person of Interest
The Wire
Boardwalk Empire
Sons of Anarchy
Banshee
Nature documentaries narrated by David Attenborough

Music:
Jazz & Classical. Anything instrumental.
Recently really into listening to Youtube compilation of #EpicMusicFamily. Some example:
Return of the Hero - Soundmopi
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tazx_vCZCv4
Atlantis - Arn Andersson
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yxr1me0KNBc
Hope and Redemption - Heavy Hitters Music
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ppe35fean2c

Food:
Chinese
Japanese
Italian
Seafood
Spicy food (but not too spicy, I want to enjoy my food not feel like it is lighting a fire with every bite)
Noodles
Six things I could never do without
Family & friends
Communication
Creativity
Nature
Sports
Car

If I'm traveling, add in resistance cables just in case if hotel has no gym.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future

How to continue to better myself and making those who care about me proud.

Who is that special girl who I will be spending the rest of my life with?
On a typical Friday night I am
Eating pizza. Yay! Pizza night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not really private, but something you should know about me I guess. When it comes to my career, I'm very ambitious. I have relocated out of Los Angeles and into the San Francisco Bay Area 4 times just for my career development.
You should message me if
Anything from above catches your interest or if you think we will be a good match.

I'm not an A-lister, so if you "Like" (star) my profile and would like to hear from me it would be really helpful if you send me a message first.

If you are from a different state or country we can be pen-pals :)

If you want to hit the tennis ball around.

If you want to message me, you probably should. Wouldn't want to let an opportunity go and settle for "what if".
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