24 Berkeley, United States
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My self-summary
Sometimes I feel like I should just say my least-tolerable qualities, just to see who would still enjoy my presence. Maybe more than I think? Do you also like to balance a dirty plate over your trash can due to laziness? Do you lie sometimes? I bet you do. Honestly I don't do it very often.

Can you handle me listing to harsh noise or sludge metal loudly every once in a while? I think I have a tendency to be able to poke people's sore spots psychologically, which I am planning to use for good purposes as a therapist soon. Perhaps you will find me too easy-going or jolly, childlike in demeanor; I'm not sorry.
What I’m doing with my life
In grad school at CIIS, pursuing a Master's in Counseling Psychology, should be starting practicum soon! I listen to music for longer than the average person, and I explore genres in many ways. I used to make music (as recently as January), but my electronic tools have dwindled and I've focused elsewhere. Maybe by writing this I'm planting a seed to start again soon?

I'm in a close-quarters open relationship at the moment, living la student loan viva loca, smoking weed, writing rhymes and poetry, eating and drinking, being stressed out, taking care of myself ad infinitum, playing pokemon go and also re-watching the early episodes, hanging out with friends, going to beaches, particularly in Santa Cruz as much as I can (hope to move there eventually), sleep/wake, and playing various board and card games.

But most importantly I am making my dreams come true.
I’m really good at
Making intense statements, knowing most of the countries, appreciating vehicles, appreciating dark humor, being playful, playing trumpet, writing in various styles, assessing your character, enjoying humanity, saving crumbs of weed, staying organized despite looking unorganized, eating you out, eating a lot, astrologizing, and enjoying toilets.

I'm really not good at talking about movies or television, buying you a drink, wanting to ride a bike, listening to your music recommendations, listening to any recommendations, flirting directly, peeing while high, waking up before 7, and remembering that I have toenails.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've read a lot of books but I've sold most of them. Most recently I read a book on victims of cruelty/ptsd, some ouspensky, whitehead, mantak chia, and a book on dreams.

Lately I've been listening to Lil Uzi Vert, Young Thug, Guerilla Toss, Palehound, Wreck And Reference, Grimes, Vomitface, Slug Christ, White Lung.

TBH, I love fancy expensive dinners that I have rarely, usually when someone (a mom) buys it for me, but I also crave going to restaurants even though I have negligible sums of money that I will one day owe back three-fold. On the usual, I like to have PB&J, experimental salads, chocolate, cookies, ice cream and all that junk, cereal, bananas, pasta and snacks. Oh, and I occasionally cook a recipe and it comes out wonderfully.

I don't watch movies often, but when I do, I prefer avant-garde/experimental/psychological/uncomfortable films.
The six things I could never do without
•consciousness, yours and mine
•water, or may I request juice?
•creativity and inspiration
•that god-thing-or-whatever
•my body//all bodies
•good food good game (life)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Actual plans, tentative plans, the present moment, my body and its pain, my friends, family and lovers, music, creativity in all forms, strategy, work, school, books, astrology, archetypes, dreams, unconscious processes, helluva lotta imagination, sex, threesomes, food, places, memories.
You should message me if
You want to get to know me. Not interested in long term commitments now; I'd like new play partners or friends in the area (been here over a year), people I can resonate with. Ask me questions, diss my profile, tell me about your day, tell me something weird, show me something beautiful.