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My self-summary
Sometimes I feel like I should just say my least-tolerable qualities, just to see who would still enjoy my presence. Maybe more than I think? Do you also like to balance a dirty plate over your trash can due to laziness? Do you lie sometimes? I bet you do. Honestly I don't do it very often.

Can you handle me listing to harsh noise or sludge metal loudly every once in a while? I think I have a tendency to be able to poke people's sore spots psychologically, which I believe I use for good purposes as a therapist in practicum. Perhaps you will find me too easy-going or jolly, childlike in demeanor, or maybe too deep when yr just "tryna chill;" I'm not sorry.
What I’m doing with my life
In grad school at CIIS, pursuing a Master's in Counseling Psychology, and I'm currejtly seeing clients at liberation institute in sf! I listen to music for longer than the average person, and I explore genres in many ways. I used to make music (as recently as last January), but my electronic tools have dwindled and I've focused elsewhere. I've played classical trumpet for 14 years, it was my life for a long time but then I took a hiatus (which may be ending aooon, anyone wanna jam?)

I'm living introvertedly lately, living la student loan viva loca, smoking weed, writing rhymes and poetry, seeking out deep conversations, eating and drinking, being stressed out, taking care of myself ad infinitum (and forgetting to do so), seeming awkward to people who don't know me, playing pokemon go and also re-watching the early episodes, hanging out with friends, going to beaches, particularly in Santa Cruz as much as I can (hope to move there eventually), sleep/wake, and playing various board and card games.

But most importantly I am making my dreams come true.
I’m really good at
Making intense statements, knowing most of the countries, appreciating vehicles, appreciating dark humor, being playful, playing trumpet, writing in various styles, assessing your character, enjoying humanity, saving crumbs of weed, staying organized despite looking unorganized, eating you out, eating a lot, astrologizing, and enjoying toilets.

I'm really not good at talking about movies or television, buying you a drink, wanting to ride a bike, listening to your music recommendations, listening to any recommendations, flirting directly, peeing while high, waking up before 7, and remembering that I have toenails.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've read a lot of books but I've sold most of them. Most recently I read a book on victims of cruelty/ptsd, Thomas Moore - Care of the Soul, some astrology books, whitehead, mantak chia, sri aurobindo, and a book on dreams.

Lately I've been listening to Lil Uzi Vert, Young Thug, Guerilla Toss, Palehound, Wreck And Reference, Grimes, Roy Hargrove, Slug Christ, White Lung.

TBH, I love fancy expensive dinners that I have rarely, usually when someone (a mom [fun fact I have two moms and two dads if you read this you're a true friend]) buys it for me, but I also crave going to restaurants even though I have negligible sums of money that I will one day owe back three-fold. On the usual, I like to have PB&J, experimental salads, chocolate, cookies, ice cream and all that junk, cereal, bananas, pasta and snacks. Oh, and I occasionally cook a recipe and it comes out wonderfully.

I don't watch movies often, but when I do, I prefer avant-garde/experimental/psychological/uncomfortable films. I just watched Star Wars (all of them) for the first time in my life after years of stubbornness and I really felt like I gained a lot of knowledge about the mission of the collective Western consciousness of this age.
Six things I could never do without
•consciousness, yours and mine
•water, or may I request juice?
•creativity and inspiration
•that god-thing-or-whatever
•my body//all bodies
•good food good game (life)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Actual plans, tentative plans, the present moment, my body and its pain, my friends, family and lovers, music, creativity in all forms, strategy, work, school, books, astrology, archetypes, dreams, unconscious processes, helluva lotta imagination, sex, threesomes, food, places, memories.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately it has been relaxing by myself, smoking weed, watching Viceland, listening to music, cleaning and organizing for fun, or hanging out with friends at home or at a bar. I love to play board games, card games and darts if anyone's down!
You should message me if
You want to get to know me. Not interested in long term commitments now; I'd like new play partners, people to have deep experiences with, or friends in the area (been here over a year), people I can resonate with. Ask me questions, diss my profile, tell me about your day, tell me something weird, show me something beautiful.
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