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My self-summary
I enjoy long, multifaceted conversations with someone who is well read and able to consider and respect different perspectives. I view having debates and discussions as one of the fastest ways to get to know someone because it reveals their inner thoughts and decision making processes, what is truly important to them, what has shaped their lives and most importantly who they would like to be in the future.

NB: If an intellectual woman intimidates you, if you don't believe in personal growth, I am not for you.

A few highlights:

I have been told that I have a great sense of humour. Engage me in conversation and you will be able to decide for yourself.

I love sun, fresh air and activity. Don't you agree that one's health should be cherished and nurtured?

While I adore time with loved ones, I also need time to myself to recharge.

Travel is one of my foremost pleasures and I am very fortunate that my profession allows me to.

I enjoy the symphony, and as long as it is possible, I attend one in every major city I visit particularly if they are playing one of my favourite composers or pieces. You will also find me in art galleries and museums. And you, Sir, where will I find you?

I have a great passion for learning and I delight in keeping my brain engaged. Do you think that learning about yourself and about others and about existing systems and how to improve these systems should be one of mankind's most important pursuits?

For complete relaxation I exercise, listen to music, cook something new, take walks/hike, spend time with my funniest and most positive friends. These activities clear and/or refreshes my mind. What do you do?

I appreciate romantic gestures like flowers and candle light dinners from time to time, or at random times. So, surprise me! :)
What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
Making people comfortable and being a confidant.

Absorbing information and applying what I have learned.

Being myself.

Quick witted banter.
The first things people usually notice about me
Various parts of my body. For men, it's whatever they, breasts, lips, butt,... It sounds crude, but it is true.

As for women and from what I have been told: hair, breasts and my accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a voracious reader so we will just have to talk about my favourite books. The same goes for movies. TV is a train wreck these days and my food taste is varied.
The six things I could never do without
Family and friends.
Intellectual activities including reading academic journals, BOOKS and having intelligent conversation!
Laptop with music
Independence and purpose
Personal growth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
It's much better to get things done rather than thinking about them. So here is what I am spending a lot of time on these days:

Doing whatever I can to ensure that my aspirations come true.

Meeting people and learning as much as I can about others and myself through my interaction with them. We can learn much from being open to others. While understanding doesn't always lead to acceptance, being a little less ignorant than we were a day ago or a few moments ago is an achievement.

Listening and trying not to become desensitized.
On a typical Friday night I am
There are no typical Fridays with me. It depends on:
My geographical location.
What my week was like.
Who I want to see (if anyone) at the time.

This means that I could be browsing a book store, shopping, at the cinema or the theatre, watching a movie at home, at a classical performance, reading, resting, listening to music while browsing the internet for worthwhile reading material or random rubbish, having drinks with friends, having tea or coffee with friends/co-workers, having dinner out, making dinner at home... I think you get the picture.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I like you I will tell you my naughtiest secret but not before ;-)
You should message me if
If you are someone unafraid of working hard to realize his full potential. An intelligent man who loves to learn, is patient and maybe even more on the quiet side but loves long multifaceted conversations. Someone honest and someone I can trust.

I am drawn to men who are unafraid to share thoughts and goals with me and also comfortable with being intimate and affectionate.

Be open, unafraid, honest and direct. How else can we hope to learn about another?