48Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
I would like to think I can't be summed up in a few words, and there's no substitute for meeting in person to discover chemistry - but so far OkC has been better than I would've expected....

I think those qualities that seem to come up in so many "message me if" sections, like Honest, Nice/Kind, Trustworthy (and Not Shirtless in Your Pics) should go without saying. I am generally laid back and easy-going but may surprise you every now and then with my intensity or a bit of an edge.

I get along with, and am attracted to, all different types of people, but there has to be an intellectual connection. Definitely looking for a truly exceptional woman; we should have great conversations and be able to enjoy each other's company without saying anything at all.
What I’m doing with my life
living life as if it's real...

I seriously love to travel, and to travel not so seriously.

I am always up for a dining adventure (I have been known to go a little overboard on the foodie thing -- but I'm also a bit of a health nut most of the time), from hole-in-the-wall to high end.
I’m really good at
cooking Thanksgiving dinner for my extended family (up to a total of 23 people this year!)


enjoying the moment

staying calm -- or at least appearing to -- under pressure
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile; and my voice (it's deeper than it looks)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
love to try all different types of food

(recent) books: The Master and Margarita, Anna Karenina, Tipping Point
(less recent): The Old Man and the Sea, The Stranger, Wind-Up Bird Chronicles, Siddartha

movies: American Beauty, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Do the Right Thing, Little Miss Sunshine, the Graduate, Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

music: Simon, Dylan, Springsteen, Leonard Cohen....

SEINFELD (I know that's tv but couldn't leave it out)
Six things I could never do without
good food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why so many NYers are up so late on OkCupid!
On a typical Friday night I am
hangin' out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will tell almost anything if you ask the right way ;-)
You should message me if
...anything you saw here brought even a hint of a smile to your face.

...or you want to take the time to get to know a little more about me.
The two of us