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My self-summary
I am a goal oriented person. In the next five years I would like to finish my degree, write a book, visit a new place, and find a new love that I can share my life with. I am a night owl, and stuck working first shift.

Where are the geek girls? It seems that they are few and far between. I need someone who will not become bored when they converse with me, or share those things that I love.

I have been alone for ten years with a few short relationships in between. There is a good chance that you also have been alone for that many years or more. I am not telling you to settle, but maybe to compromise a little as I would easily do. I may not be the most handsome rock in the quarry, but if you take a chance you might find I could be your protector and hero, or maybe your knight.

I will whisk away your melancholies as I am able, and paint your life with all the happiness that my colors can give.

I have been divorced for 10 years, and my son has left the nest. I am shy, but open up when I get to know you. and become quite spontaneous. I am looking for someone who likes Science Fiction or fantasy, hard rock, heavy metal or alternative music, motorcycles, computers and intimacy. Some of these things would be nice, and all other things are negotiable. I do not like to watch sports on TV, but do enjoy playing a little basketball, or volleyball. I do not like going to bars unless there is a live band there. I have tried to read minds, but have failed miserably. I also have a silly sense of humor , and am very considerate of the feelings of others. I am straight forward, and will tell you if I don't like something that you do....maybe even a little too blunt. I apologize ahead of time. I match well with ENFJ, or ESFJ.

I am introverted but I do need one person in my life to share my desires, and life with. If you are extroverted, you will have no problem taking me to social venues of your choice, and as I learn you, I will take the lead.

I work out from time to time doing weightlifting, treadmill, long walks/hikes, and bicycling.

Just so you know. You will not match well with me if you do not do well on the brain teasers, are racist, smoke, or have limited desire for intimacy.

I love animals, so I have to say that I like dogs and like cats, but I am allergic to all furry animals, and being around them swells my eyes up, and gives me asthma. I can tolerate dogs better than cats, but I will do what I can to accommodate your pets, but it would be better not to have them in the house.

If you break up with me, I will leave you alone. I will not bug you or stalk. If I really like you, I will ask you to talk about what is missing from our relationship to see if it is something I am able to change, but if it is something that is irreconcilable, I will let you go. The same is for me. If I find something that I cannot deal with, I will let you know, and not leave you hanging. I promise you that I am not looking for a replacement to any of my previous relationships, but something new and something that will last. The baggage has been thrown out.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a programmer and engineering tech in a machine shop, and attending school for Mechanical Engineering. In my spare time I love to write. I have taken Cessna lessons, and have the intention of jumping out of a perfectly good airplane one day. I have been to devil's monument, four corners, meteor crater, the arch, the black hills, Yellowstone, and Smithsonian and air and space museum in DC along with a plethora of other places. I am looking forward to revisiting these places with you, or finding new wonderful places with you at my side. I ride my motorcycle as much as possible, but a love of motorcycles on your part is not required. My insurance is very low, and I have never driven at over 85 mph.
I’m really good at
Thinking...If I can just find my brain! Have you seen it? I think it rolled under my book case...

....giving back rubs, and listening, and supporting, and helping you fulfill your dreams. I can fix most mechanical things when they quit on you.

Oh... and math! (I know, odd.)
The first things people usually notice about me
Don't know. I will have to ask.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books. Read about 20 books a year...mostly science fiction.

Movies I like are usually action, or science fiction as well. Not to much into sports.

I do not have cable, but watch the occasional show on Hulu. Those also are usually science fiction. I also like comedy. I do not like cop/forensics shows except for Castle.

I love heavy metal and alternative music. Groups like Metallica, Linkin' Park, and Flyleaf. I also enjoy classical concerts, and jazz.

Food...picky about food. crazy about hot buffalo wings and St. Louis style BBQ ribs...I will try anything once.
Six things I could never do without
Computer, Science fiction novels, calculator, Mountain Dew, My son, and music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex...kidding...I spend a lot of time thinking about writing. One of my dreams is to become a writer. (well maybe sex too, but I guess that is a little obvious)
On a typical Friday night I am
Right now, I work on Fridays, or play video games with my kid. If I had a significant other...that would definitely change. I like to go to movies, out to dinner, putt-putt, walks through the park, dancing, midnight ride on my motorcycle, or any other number of things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will save that for our private conversations.
You should message me if
you should message me if you just need someone to talk to, or a friend, or are looking for someone who will not play with your feelings, and will tell you the truth right from the start.

You should message me if all you want is a truthful compliment...

You should message me if you want someone who has been around the block a few times, and knows how to treat a lady.

You should message me if you are serious about starting a relationship that will last.

Warning: If you message me without context to my profile, I will not respond.
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