During the week I'm at UCL studying for a PhD in Crime Science which mostly consists of thinking about all the work I should be doing, but am not.
Despite hating my photo being taken I occasionally feel compelled to update the pictures of me on here so people can actually get an idea of what I look like - I'd like to think I'm not quite so miserable in person as I appear in the photos.
I'm pansexual, single, and here to make friends with or without benefits; just be honest about what you're interested in if you do message me.
Movies: Cloud Atlas brings me close to tears every time I watch it but I haven't opened the floodgates just yet. Anything by Chris Nolan (such a fanboy of his now). I prefer Sci-Fi and films that have something to say that makes you actually think about something in a new way. Horror and RomComs don't interest me in the slightest.
TV: The Blacklist - James Spader became one of my favourite actors when I blitzed through Boston Legal. Person of Interest. House of Cards is a show I can watch again and again (until season 3. What the hell happened?!) so if you haven't seen it and want to let's do it! I'm also about half way through The West Wing rewatch, and Fringe.
Music: I'm mostly into classical music and instrumental soundtracks - Einaudi, Giacchino, Zimmer, Rachmaninoff, Saint-Saens, Gershwin, etc.
Snuggles (The non-tea-drinking time. Good during films.)
Board games. Sad as it may sound to some I've really got into these in the last couple of years. I don't mean Monopoly or Scrabble but if you know TRAINS!, Puerto Rico, Galaxy Trucker, Love Letter, Coup, Smallworld, PowerGrid, Village, Through the Ages, Last Will, Clash of Cultures, Archipelago... well we will get on. I've been to Essen Spiel the last two years and spent far too much money. Is there a rehab for board game addicts?
A challenge - preferably a mental one; I'm not proficient at scaling physical mountains.
Sex. It's perfectly easy to enjoy it and still treat everyone with respect and decency.
Haskell Moore: No matter what you do it will never amount to anything more than a single drop in a limitless ocean.
Adam Ewing: What is an ocean but a multitude of drops?
A lot of random crap like that goes through my head. It's not all that serious though. Sometimes it's just, "Do I want Jaffa Cakes or Custard Creams?"
1. I have HIV and I'm on meds and have an undetectable viral load. For those that don't know what that means (and I've no reason to expect you do unless you're a gay guy) it basically means I can't pass it on. This really isn't an issue; we're not living in the 80s and it causes me no problems at all. Hayfever is worse.
2. I have one rather large piercing. You won't see it in the publicly available pictures on here.
3. I'm interested in and attracted to people across the gender spectrum. I really can't comprehend why this is seen as taboo by so many people. Society is weird.