In terms of a romantic partner I am looking for someone to share nerdy experiences with like going to conventions, who is politically on the left, and who is not looking to have any(more) kids.
Romance aside I would say I am interested in chatting with pretty much anyone that isn't a bigoted douche.
I have twin boys with an ex, and my ex and I are on very good terms. My boys live with her and I don't take them on weekends or anything like that, but when needed I do go over and look after them, to give my ex some relaxation. Which is highly understandable because they are crazy little monsters :P That being said I am not looking for someone to become a stepmom to them or anything like that.
I used to be really good at cooking but somewhere along the line I lost my touch. I am hoping to get back into the swing of things and experimenting with different flavour combinations to create things that are unique and tasty.
I am an excellent listener, and great at answering direct/specific questions about myself without hesitation. However saying "So tell me about yourself" to me makes me draw a huge blank and I don't even know where to begin.
Personality wise they would notice that I am not very out spoken or talkative until I get to know someone. This is generally because I like to know what is and isn't OK to say around someone. I don't like offending people or causing a confrontation, so I like to know my boundaries before jumping in.
I love RA Salvatore's books. If you don't know who he is, he is a fantasy writer that bases much of his books in the D&D world (seeee, geek).
Ok, I'll list the genre's I enjoy.
Metal(Industrial, Heavy, Power, Death, Black, Nu)
Electronic(House, Aggrotech, Trip-Hop, Dubstep)
Retro(New Wave, 80's Alternative, Classic Rock)
Guilty Pleasure, Insane Clown Posse and Psychopathic Records
Anything in the realm of the geeky stuff :P
Seafood except for Oysters/Mussels/Raw Clams
Indian Food (Butter Chicken, Tikki Masala)
North American Chinese
Mexican (not taco bell Mexican, which is decent mind you)
Mediterranean or Middle Eastern (Gyros, Falafel)
German/Ukrainian/Polish/other Eastern European
Caring people around me
You want to play some board/video games, go for a walk, talk about nonsense and serious stuff.
If you are in Toronto or the GTA I am more than willing to drive/GO Train it out to hang out. I love Toronto and want to make it my home someday.
But really, just message me if you want to :)