What I find to be a real turn on in a younger-than-me man: chivalry, innate intelligence, generosity, kindness, a hot body, sharp intuition, high energetic vibration, adventurous spirit, witty humor, class, high wealth frequency, and an open heart.
You are willing to be seen and have nothing to hide. You are completely available and have no loose ends in past relationships. You can laugh at yourself and see humor in life. You feel comfortable in your skin and have high self-confidence. You know how to be accountable for everything you create and life is not just happening to you. You live your life on purpose.
Me? I am all of the above and can laugh about it.
I believe that part of the purpose of a relationship is to reflect those places that still desire to expand. I'm looking for a relationship where there is mutual support to bring out more of the best in each other. "How does it get any better than this?"…is my motto.
My ultimate goal is to find a solo life partner where deep intimacy is natural and effortless. I want that intimacy to be inspired from the heart and not lusted from the crotch. Anyone can do that…
Chemistry is everything......well, right behind attraction.
Best of luck to you here on OKC!
Being spontaneous and adventurous.
Having deep and meaningful conversations.
Movies: Avatar, Amélie, Buck, Thrive. Also Beowulf — I don’t usually like violent movies, but the digital effects won me over.
Shows: Nothing in particular… I’m not much of a TV-watcher.
Music: Mostly Pandora, sometimes radio, 103.9 KBLX and sometimes ALICE
Food: Borderline vegetarian. At home I’m a little more ascetic, but I indulge when I go out to dinner, and I love trying new restaurants.
Family/Friends (is that 2?)
Outdoors/nature (is that 2?)
Anything that makes me laugh (definitely more than 2)
I tend to be attracted to younger men......they seem to be, in general, more fun, have more enthusiasm for life, are less bitter and hardened by their personal journey, and have more energy.
You aren’t committed to having a beard. (They can look great, but they don’t feel great from my end.)
You’re messaging people who truly interest you. I value others’ time and energy, and I only make plans if I sincerely think there might be a connection — I trust that you’re doing the same.