64Ajijic, Mexico
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My self-summary
For the moment I'm loving life inland in Mexico, but am almost ready to move on. Where next? I don't know yet. Suggestions?

I love things new and different whether an idea, a place or something to do, see, read or eat. But then again, sometimes I like the same old same-old. I'm a sucker for a man who can make me laugh.

I often visit family and friends in the US. I was thinking about living there again--but since the election I wonder whether to rush home and join the good fight or to move farther away. I'll be in D.C. for the marches in April and in NYC and Nashville, thereafter.

I've been a nightclub reviewer, a columnist for the Baltimore Sun, and also a photographer. Although I've done quite a bit of fashion photography, I'm not much for actually wearing uncomfortable clothes or make-up, but I'll happily dress up on request. Might even have a go at lipstick.

I detest rigid opinions of any stripe (but especially those of the right or of religion). If you voted for Trump--if you even considered voting for Trump--no need to get in touch.

I generally behave pretty well, I'm usually nice, definitely an introvert, a bit shy. I like to think I'm intelligent, funny, good natured, good company, etc.--but don't we all? Oh, and I lied about my age.

I am Irreverent, creative, and smart.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working on a novel--ouch, does that sound more pretentious or more trite? It's a mystery, so maybe that's not so bad.

I swim, do yoga and chi kung, and work out--um--often.
I’m really good at
Photographing people. I was a pro for many years.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I need a haircut?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like NPR, The Guardian, New Yorker, New York Review of Books, and that wonderful internet rag: Reader Supported News. I don't have a TV. Love fiction. All kinds of mysteries, and biography too. My all-time favorite movie is Black Orpheus though it scares the hell out of me everytime I watch it.

I like pretty much all music, from Beethoven, to Beatles, to Black Keys, but especially World Beat and Springsteen's Sessions Band. I do have a weakness for sushi and cerviche. I'll happily eat pretty much anything I didn't have to cook myself.
Six things I could never do without
My two (fully fledged) children and their families. Clean water to swim in, preferably the ocean (so why, you might ask--and I ask myself--have I moved to Lake Chapala, which is not only not the ocean but not fit to swim in?) Then there's love, sex, and of course food-water-shelter. I tend to prefer flush toilets to most other kinds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Do Republicans actually possess hearts? Occasionally I wonder why so many people on OKC feel it necessary to go on about how they hate rap.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm happier now than I have almost ever been. But I still hate my freckles.
You should message me if
You are reasonably literate and intelligent, kind, politically liberal or progressive, love sex, and can carry your end of a conversation. If you think Fox News is news, we'll never get along.
The two of us