64Ajijic, Mexico
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My self-summary
I'm loving life inland in sunny Mexico, but--don't laugh--lately I've been missing snow and slush, central heat and gray days. Also, illogically, I crave a warm empty beach even more. I'm wondering if it's time to think about moving or if it's a temporary aberration. I suspect the former.

I love things new and different whether an idea, a place or something to do, see, read or eat. But then again, sometimes I like the same old same-old. I'm a sucker for a man who can make me laugh.

I often visit family and friends in the US--especially NYC, Baltimore, Santa Fe. I was thinking about living there again--but since the election I wonder whether to rush home and join the good fight or to move farther away.

I've been a nightclub reviewer, a columnist for the Baltimore Sun, and also a photographer. Although I've done quite a bit of fashion photography, I'm not much for actually wearing uncomfortable clothes or make-up, but I'll happily dress up on request. Might even have a go at lipstick.

I detest rigid opinions of any stripe (but especially those of the right or of religion). If you voted for Trump--if you even considered voting for Trump--no need to get in touch. Same goes if you think the bible is the word of God.

I generally behave pretty well, I'm usually nice, definitely an introvert, a bit shy, and test as INFJ or ISFJ. I like to think I'm intelligent, funny, good natured, good company, etc.--but don't we all? Oh, and I lied about my age.

I am Irreverent, creative, and smart.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working on a novel--ouch, does that sound more pretentious or more trite? It's a mystery, so maybe that's not so bad.

I swim a mile or two a week, do some yoga and qi gong, and work out--um--often.
I’m really good at
Photographing people. I was a pro for many years.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I need a haircut?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like NPR, The Guardian, New Yorker, New York Review of Books, and that wonderful internet rag: Reader Supported News. I don't have a TV. Love fiction. All kinds of mysteries, and biography too. My all-time favorite movie is Black Orpheus though it scares the hell out of me everytime I watch it.

I like pretty much all music, from Beethoven, to Beatles, to Black Keys, but especially World Beat and Springsteen's Sessions Band. I do have a weakness for sushi and cerviche. I'll happily eat pretty much anything I didn't have to cook myself though I tend to not eat mammals much.
Six things I could never do without
My two (fully fledged) children and their families. Clean water to swim in, preferably the ocean (so why, you might ask--and I ask myself--have I moved to Lake Chapala, which is not only not the ocean but not fit to swim in?) Then there's love, sex, and of course food-water-shelter. I tend to prefer flush toilets to most other kinds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Do Republicans actually possess hearts? Occasionally I wonder why so many people on OKC feel it necessary to go on about how they hate rap.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm happier now than I have almost ever been. But I still hate my freckles.
You should message me if
You are reasonably literate and intelligent, kind, politically liberal or progressive, love sex, and can carry your end of a conversation. If you think Fox News is news, we'll never get along.
The two of us