57 Brookline, United States
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My self-summary
I enjoy a wide range of activities including running, skiing, golf, theater, music, hiking, motorcycle riding, camping, and watching movies while snuggling. I love physical touch, from holding hands to rubbing shoulders in a casual way while waiting in a checkout line, to casual or intimate kissing, to relaxing and/or sensual massages to... I'm very open-minded and non-judgmental as well.

I am 6' tall, 175 lbs, athletic, short brown hair (mixed with some gray), and blue eyes. I often grow a beard in the winter, and generally shave it sometime in March (earlier or later depending upon the groundhog.) I prefer to date women with a younger appearance and attitude. I like spending time with people that are intelligent, funny (or humorous), and self aware.

I am currently in an open partnership, and I'd like to find someone local to play with, in the bedroom and potentially out as well if we enjoy shared interests.

If you are seeking a more traditional, one and only, strictly monogamous relationship, I would not be a good match.
What I’m doing with my life
These days:
* Making a difference in small ways
* Learning (this and that)
* Hiking in the mountains on weekends
* Following rabbit trails on the internet
* Developing business
I’m really good at
Writing, especially business communications. Keeping the peace, sometimes to a fault. Snuggling. Accepting others and withholding judgment and criticism. Wearing jeans. Smiling. Telling jokes and humorous wordplay (at least some people think it is humorous.) Giving and sharing pleasure with my partner. Traveling. Motorcycle riding.
The first things people usually notice about me
I guess it depends on the observer. Some people have commented on...

My smile
My blue eyes
My posterior
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: 70's progressive rock such as ELP, Yes, Pink Floyd. Classical/concert especially piano sonatas of Beethoven, piano concertos, big bombastic symphonies (read "lots of brass") by the likes of Holst, Bruckner, Copeland, almost anything by Shostakovich. Broadway and show tunes. Some jazz. Classic and soft rock: James Taylor, Simon and Garfunkel, and the like.

Live theater, especially musicals. Spamalot, Young Frankenstein, The Full Monty. I have a weakness for the big production like Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, and Phantom. Also love community theater and even high school productions. Opera now and then; I really enjoy the Met Live in HD.

Movies: Groundhog Day, Lost in Translation, The Music Man, LOTR, Wizard of Oz, Shortbus, Forrest Gump, Chariots of Fire, Princess Bride, Serenity (Firefly), Mars Attacks, Galaxy Quest, The Matrix, Star Wars, Dr. Strangelove, Where Eagles Dare, Amadeus, Big Fish, Transamerica, The Immaculate Conception of Little Dizzle, My Fair Lady.

Books: Some favorites include LOTR, Huckleberry Finn, Winnie the Pooh, Anathem, To a God Unknown, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, 1984, The Agony and the Ecstasy, Pompeii, Japan's Hidden Hot Springs, Stranger in a Strange Land, Lord of the Flies, Ender's Game, Opening Up, Catch 22, Wicked, Memoirs of Casanova, Poisonwood Bible, Maya's Notebook, Slaughterhouse Five, Corelli's Mandolin...
The six things I could never do without
Beyond the obvious of food/water/shelter, these are things that are very important to me:

Physical affection
Mental, emotional, and sensual stimulation
Someone to love and appreciate
Someone who loves and appreciates me
Being active outdoors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where to hike this weekend. Actually I don't spend that much time thinking about the destination at all; start on 93N and follow my nose...
On a typical Friday night I am
Often home, watching a movie or reading.

Or, doing something else...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to abscond with my father's Playboy magazines and read them in my tree house as a pre-teen. Shhhh, don't tell anyone, especially my father...!
You should message me if
* You are attracted to my photos and my profile description
* You appreciate being appreciated
* You would like to be in a relationship with someone that accepts you and does not expect you to change
* You are truly OK with being in a non-exclusive relationship
* You are athletically built, or on the slim/slender side, or basically fit and HWP
* You are creative, passionate, open-minded, adventurous, spontaneous
* You love touching and being touched, casually or affectionately or intimately
* You have some available time to spend together