Substantial_Fun
46 Berkeley, United States
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My self-summary
My gaze is the first thing people notice about me. And then it's my naughty tooth.

I'm the greatest listener, but not always by keeping quiet and nodding my head. If your mood invites it, I will interrupt you, "tell me more about that!" I'm a great listener because I want to know.

I swim in the deep end of the pool. I'm straightforward. I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I know myself and I'm always working on becoming a better me. If I want something, I figure out how to make it happen.

And who are you, sweet girl?
What I’m doing with my life
I am passionately drawn to beauty in all its forms. I especially love music (watching and a little doing), dance (mostly watching), and the spirit of feminine beauty that radiates through you, my dear girl.

I'm a professional software engineer. That pays the bills comfortably and lets me keep everything in order. Awesome.
I’m really good at
Listening. Getting dirty. Empathy. Connection. Making you feel beautiful. Feeling your heart. NVC.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm now reading Gary Chapman's book, The 5 Love Languages. Seems legit. My primary/secondary are Physical Touch and Quality Time. I give well in Acts of Service, but I don't need to receive that much.

I like the movie John Wick. You don't have to watch it with me.
The six things I could never do without
My connection with my 12-year-old son is my greatest and most treasured responsibility. My experience as a single, full-time dad has taught me what it means to be really there for somebody, completely and unconditionally.
You should message me if
You're very feminine. You live in your body. You fully experience your feelings. You express your feelings right now, tenderly or loudly, unfiltered. You trust me with the depth of your heart. I meet you with my own depth, a still consciousness. We relax together into this. We like this, this crucible of pleasure with a wild stirring within.

Message me if you want to feel relaxed with a guy, and at the same time have crazy fun.
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