I'm a family man with a difficult marriage. I don't want to give it up, mainly for the kids. She's told me to go get "it" elsewhere, but I don't want to, and yet, the main thing that's missing is not so much good sex per se but someone who smiles at me, encourages me and is empathetic. Also someone who will receive the same from me.
I'm a professional in my work life, responsible, safe, sane - just a bit lonely
I am ardent, empathetic, and sane
Movies: I don't see too many these days that aren't rated G. I liked Ratatouille (the movie.) I loved Secretary. High Fidelity. But I'm a Cheerleader. Sabrina. The Notebook. (Yeah I like some chick flicks what about it!) The new Casino Royale. Bound. These are just random off the top of my head.
Music: Could go on forever, start with the Beatles, go to Gwenn Stefani, Narry Nilsson, Stevie Wonder, David Bowie, Cream, The Who, The KInks (yes, I'm in my 40's; maybe you can introduce me to more newer music.) Also classical and jazz. I'll go for almost anything as long as it's good at what it is.
Food: Not too picky. The company's more important.