Openedhorizons
50Surrey, Canada
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My self-summary
Can be objective, realistic and focussed with a minimalist outlook on life, most times preferring the experiences of life over the settling down white picket fence type of thing.
Had a pretty bad accident a while ago so changing carreers and all the stuff that goes with it now and this last year has been challenging and a real pain in the ass.
At a point in my life where it might be cool just to be able to relate and talk with someone again as I've kinda shut down emotionally. My life has been on a learning and changing rather than giving path these last 3 years and while usually extroverted I now feel more like an introvert (ambivert) and not in a bad way, more like finally being able to have a relationship with myself and just able to enjoy life more and more, not feeling the need to give too much of myself away.
What I’m doing with my life
As previously mentioned I had a pretty harsh injury so mostly at home right now as I'm in the process of changing my life on various levels.
On a side note the time off at home allowed me to start learning how to code and along with my previous business experience will most likely propel me into a tech startup or similar which excites me.
I’m really good at
Creating and expressing emotions with my hands.

Combining information to create new systems of information.
The first things people usually notice about me
When I'm in social mode I tend to be very engaging and probably have one of the loudest laughs in the room...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"It's a cycle of craving that never ends. Generally coming from a place of releasing pressure instead of from a place of enjoying the connection and experience, thus, it never brings satisfaction."
I like films that stir emotiins in me as well as simultaneously keeping me engaged mentally.
Musically I'm in a Edm deep house or tribal phase and not the greatest at trying to remember titles or bands as I more like just catchin a beat somewhere and rolling with it however that might be, currently it's at home with my headphones on and a Youtube playlist though I really appreciate going out with people and having an awesome time dancing with the kinda music that energizes me and shakes my insides. I also like bands in the summer outside in the hot sun having a great time with people connecting and getting close.
Constant reader on the net or with books about anything and everything to do with programming, digital marketing, social media,business, health or dating in general. Right now I am reading Expert Secrets by Russel Brunson which is about creating fantastic organizations and movements of people in order to create positive change in the world. Also I like blogging and expressing my thoughts and ideas with the pen or keyboard.
Lets see...as for coffee, well that goes hand in hand with an all night coding session so yes I can always do more of those or that. Also I like tons of different food just not too much, too rich or too often as my body works well with fruit, cereal, vitamins, cheese-avacado-spinach-sprout sandwiches on good bread with lots of spike. For supper my fav is veggie lasagna (used to be a vegetarian for a bunch of years now I can do both) thats tasty deliciousness or something that one or both of my kids and I make together if they are over mmmm. Top the food off with plenty of walking and I am usually good to go although that is harder to do now as I basically had some time off from the walking aspect of things and thinking about taking up yoga to supplement the rehabilitation phase I'm currently in.
Six things I could never do without
3 possibly 4 to start:

Dialed in and turned on about life while making shit happen!

Feeling a part of something bigger than myself while adding value to the world.

Pushing my edges and staying on the forefront of life, marvelling at the wonders of the progression of the human race towards??? I want to experience new things not to be able to say I did rather from the deep inner knowing of all facets of a truly great experience that can be shared with others.

My alone time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Is life an experience or a rehearsal, are we meant to strive and improve our lives till its time to give up and just be, or live like there is no tomorrow letting the chips fall where they may with passion and no regrets...
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out or going to events with others or introspection and kicking back with my laptop it all depends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Watching bits of anime vids with someone close...
You should message me if
Message each other and see if we can find something interesting to talk about, if not, no harm no foul...
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