Otukainen
29 Helsinki, Finland
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My self-summary
Update: Please do take note that I don´t see who has liked me. If you like me AND want me to know that, drop me a (clever) line.

First thing first so that people won't miss it: I'M NOT INTO BLACK MEN. Sorry and thank you.

And second thing next, I'm kinda looking for something serious or at least long term stuff. Don't want to concentrate on learning about you if you're planning to vanish magically tomorrow.

And third thing: Impress me with something else than a story of your sex skills. Also you being interested in doing sexual things to me doesn't equal me being interested in you.

Why it's always so difficult to write things like these. Maybe it's because we've been taught not to praise ourselves but when you write something like this, blaming yourself isn't an option either. Hmph.

Sometimes I feel like I have a shell around me as if I were trapped into myself but whenever someone comes close to me in the right way, there isn't any. I might seem like proud, mean or selfish at first but actually I'm soft inside. My face is just not used to being twisted all the time (smile, if you're wondering).

I think relationships are what we make them. If you don't tell what you want, you more often than not don't get what you want.

When I say half marathon, you say let's go. I obviously need the kick of endorphines you get when being pushed against your physical limits and would love to experience it with someone.

You don't think muscle and women don't fit in a same sentence. That being said, you can hopefully carry on an interesting conversation on more topics than one. (Here you get a plus if those topics include but aren't limited to: science, fitness, fashion and style, physiology, life after death, things that cannot be seen or proven and psychology) For some reason I would like to brush up my Swedish and maybe later German, too.

I am reliable, bold, and contemplative.

Btw, I don't wear glasses anymore nowadays as I had my eyes lasered.

And oh. Beards turn me off, like totally. Sorry.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to figure out, who I am and what I want to become. Chosen to work on a field totally unrelated to the subject I've studied.
I’m really good at
- Reaching the goals I've set to myself if I'm motivated enough.
- Becoming obsessed by someone or something and then talking and raving about it all the time.
- Remembering irrelevant data.
- Being there for people I care about.
The first things people usually notice about me
- My long hair.
- My calmness and inner balance, even though I don't always feel like I'm balanced, huh.
- My lips even when they don't speak
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read much and I don't watch movies very often but I liked Shawshank Redemption and Matrix trilogy and many others. I cannot say I liked Martyrs (I mean, how can you like it?!) but it did touch me. Just like with food I like most music. Not country, though, for example and not any old people music.

In general I like food. Actually there isn't much that I don't like when it comes to food. (I happen to be vegan, though. You don't have to be but be prepared to eat my concoctions and pretend to like them.) I've pretty much never liked: anything made of liver (even the smell makes me sick) and orange juice (and most orange flavored things).
The six things I could never do without
exercise, people I love and who love me back, freedom and 3 more that I cannot come up with right now
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future, what I'm going to do next, some future events I'm waiting for, work, relationships, what I'm going to cook or bake next, whether or not I should get a pet, why the water in the shower almost always feels too cold for me no matter what I do and so on
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing things I always do or chilling in good company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you have pickles (ie. cucumbers in vinegary brine), hide them or I'll end up eating them. Oh no, had to go have some after writing that :(

Update: My new love is gari. Straight from the package by the forkful. Oh God.
You should message me if
you actually read my profile and think we'd get along and you've something original to say.
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