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My self-summary
Hello, I'm Thomas, an author who is searching for a very special woman to share his life with. A muse to inspire me, a princess to cherish and protect.

I am currently living with my mom but will be moving out soon. Most likely with my dad, where I can concentrate on my writing and save money. I have faith in my abilities.

Physically I am tall and well built. Strong arms and broad shoulders. My day job (technically night) requires a lot of heavy lifting, so I get a good strength building workout; perfect for carrying my lady to her castle. <3

My ethnic heritage is half Assyrian, one forth German, and one forth Polish; a good combination of European and Middle Eastern. My ancestors hail from the great Austrian, Russian, and Ottoman Empires; so I have quite the family history that I am very proud of.

Spirituality is as essential to my being as food and shelter, and I live everyday in the company of God. I am a philosopher and mystic, so God is always close in mind and heart. If I had to describe my worldview it would be Panentheistic Transtheism. If you don't know what that means don't worry, I would be happy to share it with you. Spirituality is something that encompasses the whole of one's being, just as God is whole in being.

I am a self educated, refined gentleman who upon meeting a lady will always kiss her hand. Being a philosopher, naturally I enjoy philosophical dialogues. I enjoy discussing politics, and love history and science. Art is my passion, both as an active artist and as a patron of the arts. Music and film are my major artistic passions, I am total movie buff; horror being my favorite genre. Music plays a very important role in my life, and I listen to it everyday. Metal is my most listened to genre, and I like bands from most subgenres. I also enjoy listening to classical and electronic, some rock and old school rap. I like to play video games, both alone and with friends. These are the things that inspire me in my own creative works. they allows me to channel my abilities into something new and wonderful.

My friends are extremely important to me, and I consider many of them to be more like brothers and sisters rather than mere friends. We enjoy many activities together; having philosophical conversations, working on creative projects, watching movies, playing video games, drinking at bars, dancing at nightclubs, meeting new and interesting people. My friends are truly an irreplaceable aspect of my life and I am grateful for having each one of them.

My life is one of self discovery and adventure, and I am looking for my soul mate; someone to share every step along the journey.
What I’m doing with my life
I am very artistically oriented, loving to write and play music. My goal in life is become a published author and musician, so I have dedicated most of my time and resources to achieving, and perfecting, this goal. Refining my projects and becoming a better artist all around, so that my success shall be inevitable!

I'm in the final stages of completing my first novel. It is an epic Science Fantasy guide to a world that I have created, and will serve as a reference to a series of nine novels that I am planning to write that will take place within this world. I know that there is definitely a niche audience for this book, and have great faith that it will get published once I have finished it. It's just too unique!

In addition to my current novel, I am also writing a collection of four Erotic novellas, as well as a collection of twelve Action Adventure short stories, all which are set in the same world as my reference guide. I am creating an entire universe for these stories, so it is very exciting to write them; exploring their eccentric characters and exotic landscapes.

I would love to meet someone to share my artistic passions with!

Besides writing I am also the lead vocalist and lyricist in a two man black metal project, in which we are in the midst of our first album.

Until I make it as an author and/or musician I have been working at a retail store doing stocking and receiving. It's not so bad, and I do get a good workout, but it's definitely not a place I am going to stay for too long. I have too much potential to be wasted stocking corporate merchandise. :-)
I’m really good at
Writing obviously. I am, in all modesty ;-), an excellent writer. I'm also very good at holding meaningful conversations, and especially listening; I love to listen. Although I enjoy playing sports, I don't play as often as I should. Basketball, softball, and soccer are my favorites; the problem is finding enough people to play. I am also, much to my surprise, quite good at dancing. Whenever I head to the club I always get down on the dance floor. and when I do people always compliment me on my supposed "skills". I am also very good with my hands, or so I've been told ;-)

I would love to go out dancing with a lovely lady, and I promise as always, to treat her like an empress. ;-) I love to treat a woman like a proper lady; for I, as a distinguished gentleman, will settle for nothing less.

I am really good at feeling and even reading others; and I love to meet new people all the time. I enjoy forming meaningful connections with people, especially women. I can feel what women really desire and what they need, because I am good at reading them, and making them feel good about themselves.

If you like a man who will hold you tight, help you realize your true beauty and power in this universe, then come take my hand and sit down next to me. I will cradle your head into my shoulder, whispering life's mysteries in your ear, and make you feel like an empress being embraced by her emperor. Let me take to on a journey of love and creativity, into the world that is my empire.
The first things people usually notice about me
My long hair, usually tied in a ponytail. I think most people, men and women, look better with long hair, and so far most people I have met would seem to agree. I always get compliments on my hair, sometimes women ask to touch it. I need a woman who can appreciate it!

Besides that, people usually notice, once they start talking to me, that I have a very refined way of speaking. No ghetto slang or other bullshit that butchers the English language, I try to speak in a coherent and poetic way. It comes natural to me. Honesty, people can tell a lot about you by the manner in which you talk, so when you speak it should be clear and genuine. Not a jumbled mess of nonsense.

When people do begin to talk with me, they also notice my extensive vocabulary and general knowledge, about a myriad of various subjects. I am very knowledgeable in philosophy, religion, history, science, and politics; having studied in these fields throughout my life while growing up. I love to talk about these things!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most of the books I read are Philosophical or Spiritual in nature. I really need to read more fiction.

Books: The Kybalion, The Holy Bible, The Bhagavad Gita, The Gospel of Thomas, The Tao Te Ching.

I am a total movie buff! Here is but a select few of the movies that I like.

Jurassic Park, Ghostbusters 1 and 2, Star Wars, The Lord of The Rings, The Shawshank Redemption, American History X, Romper Stomper, This in England, My Cousin Vinny, Groundhog Day, The Matrix trilogy, Harry Potter, Avatar, E.T. The Extraterrestrial, Lawrence of Arabia, Planet of the Apes (1968), The Last Emperor, Gandhi, Bram Stoker's Dracula, Interview with the Vampire, The Lost Boys, Blade 1 and 2, The Warriors, Back to the Future trilogy, Kill Bill Volume I and II, Reservoir Dogs, Pulp Fiction, Machete, Hobo with a Shotgun, Falling Down, Cast Away, Where The Wild Things Are, Home Alone 1 and 2, Terminator 1 and 2, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Gremlins 1 and 2, The Wicker Man (1973), The Exorcist, Scream, The Hills Have Eyes (2006), The Silence of the Lambs, Idle Hands, Piranha 3D, Insidious, The Cabin in the Woods, Cube trilogy, Dark City, Donnie Darko, The Truman Show, Evil Dead trilogy, The Mist, Jacob's Ladder, Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, The Dark Knight Rises, Spiderman 1 and 2, Con Air, Watchmen, Full Metal Jacket, A Clockwork Orange, The Shinning, Once Upon a Time in China trilogy, First Blood, Thunderheart, The Princess Bride, The Wizard of Oz, Pirates of The Caribbean, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Ed Wood, Classic Disney movies, Pixar movies, Godzilla movies!

I don't watch TV anymore really, I kinda lost interest in it and it seems that most shows on TV just plain suck. Mind controlling commercials and reality TV plague the airways, so I usually just stay clear. Back in the day I used to watch a lot of TV, but the only show I still keep tabs on now is South Park.

TV Shows: South Park, The Simpsons, The Boondocks, Beast Wars, Transformers, Tom and Jerry, Looney Tunes, Teen Titans, Pinky and the Brain, The Powerpuff Girls, Dexter's Laboratory, The Real Ghostbusters, Extreme Ghostbusters, MythBusters, Deadliest Warrior, Hercules The Legendary Journeys, Married with Children, Saved by the Bell, Metalocalypse, The Twilight Zone, Tales from the Crypt.

I also enjoy anime. Some favorites include: Trigun, Dragon Ball, Dragon Ball Z, Witch Hunter Robin, Samurai Champloo, Paranoia Agent, Sister Princess, Please Teacher, Please Twins, Rosario + Vampire, Vandread, Street Fighter II V.

Being a musician myself, I absolutely love and enjoy listening to music, and do so on a daily basis. I love movies and games that have awesome soundtracks. I am definitely much more inclined towards Heavy Metal, and listen to many, many bands. This is just a list of some of my favorites, in no particular order.

Iced Earth, Black Sabbath, Iron Maiden, Overkill, Judas Priest, Candlemass, Summoning, Burzum, Absurd, Darkthrone, HIM, Mushroomhead, Gothminister, Pagan Altar, Witchcraft, Morbid Angel, Obituary, Death, White Zombie, Rob Zombie, Powerwolf, Tankard, Accept, Mago De Oz, Moonspell, Tiamat, Black Label Society, Ozzy Osbourne, Dio, Finnrtoll, Korpiklaani, Metallica, Slayer, Anthrax, Megadeth, Rammstein, Abigor, Samael, Sirenia, Marduk, Nightwish, Leaves Eyes, Moi Dix Mois, X Japan, Dream Theater, Borknagar, Symphony X, Falkenbach, Adorned Brood, KMFDM, Amon Amarth, Magica, Epica, Blind Guardian, Sodom, Toxic Holocaust, Destruction, Venom, Bathory, Mercyful Fate, Cthonic, Amorphis, Girlschool, Danzig, Savatage, Trans-Siberian Orchestra, Type O Negative, Twisted Sister, Motley Crue, WASP, Dokken, The Sword, Dethklok, Apocalyptica, Elvenking, Van Canto, Meldrum, Hysterica, Kreator, Primal Fear, Deep Purple, Sir Lord Baltimore, Rush, Alice In Chains, Lordi, Satyricon, Gwar, Annihilator, Dimmu Borgir, Marilyn Manson, Deathstars, Guns N' Roses, Mayhem, Running Wild, Swashbuckle, Alestorm, Naglfar, God Dethroned, Suicidal Tendencies, Human Fortress, Saxon, Nile, Melechesh, Nekrogoblikon, Cathedral, Turisas, Kalmah

Electronic: Shpongle, Infected Mushroom, Xenomorph

Classical and Baroque: Bach, Beethoven, Pachelbel, Wagner, Tchaikovsky, Mozart

Rock: Pink Floyd, Queens of the Stone Age, The Offspring, Steppenwolf, Jimi Hendrix, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Billy Idol, Tom Petty

Rap: Immortal Technique, Run DMC, Dr Dre, Eminem, D12, Tech N9ne, Kottonmouth Kings, Coolio

Movie and Game composers: John Williams, Danny Elfman, Hans Zimmer, Yoko Shimomura, Akira Yamaoka, Alan Silvesti

Some of my favorite video game series include GTA, Silent Hill, Kingdom Hearts, Mortal Kombat, Tekken, and Metal Gear Solid.

My favorite cuisines are Italian, Mexican, Polish, Assyrian, and Chinese.
Six things I could never do without
Without getting too literal with this section, the six things I could never do without would have to be:

1. My relationship with God and the universe.
2. My friends and family.
3. My computer. It has all of my work on it!
4. Art; especially music and movies.
5. A calm, loving heart.
6. A quiet, open mind.

I am hoping that a very special woman could be my seventh thing I could never do without. ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Philosophical concepts, ultimate reality, creative endeavors. Being a philosopher and artist. The woman that I want to spend my life with and where I might find her. Becoming self actualized, getting married; these are the things that occupy my thoughts most of the time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting ready for work! LOL I usually work Saturday mornings beginning at 4 am, and I don't sleep before I go so I'm up throughout the night on Fridays. I usually hang out with my friends before work, as some of them work with me, so that's cool.

Saturday nights are more of my free nights, of which I'm usually hanging out with my friends going to bars and nightclubs or heading over to someone's place to watch a movie or play some games. I love going out as much as staying in, and am always down for something new.; my life is an adventure!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am struggling to finish and publish my first novel, so that I can make it on my own. Not to prove to anyone that I can do things without them, on the contrary, I need all the help I can get, but so that I can achieve something beautiful that will benefit me, my family and friends, and the world that I want to share my visions with.

I am currently on a somewhat fixed budget, and I do occasionally rely on of my parents for financial assistance. I feel no shame in this, and I very thankful for their continual generosity and support as I work towards something higher.
You should message me if
Don't be shy! As much as I find it cute, there is no reason to be shy here, if you are interested in becoming good friends or something more, just message me.

What I am looking for is good friends to go out with, stay home and watch movies, or have romantic dinners together and talk the night away. I am also looking for a long term relationship, including the possibility of marriage and children. It is time for me to settle down and I'm hoping that maybe, just maybe I could find that very special lady. I could easily see myself being a stay at home dad, working on my next book while taking care of the kids.

You should message me if you are a sweet, loving, and creative woman who enjoys going out and staying in; who enjoys to talk and loves to listen. A woman who is looking for a man to treat her like an empress, and give to her the love and attention that she so rightfully deserves! A woman who wants to have children, and several of them, and has the gentle touch of a mother, while having the supportive nature of a devoted wife. Message me if you think you are ready for a true relationship, one of mutual trust, understanding and excitement! I know my dearly beloved is out there...perhaps it is you. Come be my empress. <3
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