39 Portland, United States
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My self-summary
Active, Kinky, Musical, Intelligent
I am very much a Leo
I am a contradiction wrapped in a enigma dipped in paradox.
I am a slick geek
I play bass
I know myself well
I am very sensitive though I don't like to show it

If you want to get to know me send me a msg and we will chat, talk or get together. Looking for friends and like minded people have lived in Portland and Southern Oregon most of my life. I am very open minded and know how to communicate.
I am a contradiction wrapped in a conundrum dipped in paradox.- this can not be emphasized enough-
My greatest skill is the ability to shift my viewpoint and see things from the other perspectives. My mind races faster than light and I think of many things simultaneously. I am passive and aggressive. I am calm but intense. I have a great reserve of inner power. I am spiritual yet a realist. I am a chameleon but all my faces are true. I will not lie when asked a direct question, but am a master of misdirection. I am always brutally honest with my friends. If they can't handle it they are not my friends. I will always tell you what I think you need to hear even if I don't agree with it or it's not in my best interests. I come across as distant and aloof but its just a defense. I feel things quite deeply.
So that's about it.
I am a complicated guy and can seem aloof or stand offish don't let if put you off. Hope to hear from some of you.

drinks with friends
nights on the town
Mountain biking
hanging out in nature
What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
Being Me
Fixing things
Being a gentleman... Till I am asked not to be ;-)
Mixing amazing cocktails
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know. I am usually dressed pretty sharp
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Ethical Slut
Sword of Truth
Now You See Me
The six things I could never do without
Good Food
wilderness escape
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life the universe and everything
On a typical Friday night I am
finding trouble, or working
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am kinky. Also that I am practicing a form of polyamory with my self as primary. I fit well as a secondary, or other, but am not looking for primary level relationship intensity at this time.
You should message me if
You Like Me, I don't pay for this site so I can't see if you Like me
I like a woman who can take the
You are looking for a hook up, most likely one time thing, unless we really click.
You want to go out on an interesting date
You want to hit some local burlesque