Books: Fight Club, Choke, American Hardcore, Ender's Game, Speaker for the Dead, Johnny Got His Gun, Night of the Aurochs, Clockwork Orange, Catch-22, Stranger in a Strange Land, Freakonomics
Movies: Brick, Grandma's Boy, Super, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, The Dark Knight, Labyrinth, The Man From Earth, Red State
TV: Futurama, Family Guy, South Park, Arrested Development, Dexter, The Simpsons, Metalacolypse, The League, 30 Rock, Parks and Recreation
Music: The Beatles, Tool, Periphery, Sleepytime Gorilla Museum, Animals As Leaders, Amanda Palmer, The Dresdon Dolls, Tin Hat Trio, 20WT, The Mud Flappers, Foxy Shazam!, The Dillinger Escape Plan, Meshuggah, Larry and His Flask, Two Man Gentleman Band, Reverend Payton and His Big Damn Band, Stray Cats, Jeff Buckley, Arlo Guthrie, Sarah Lee Guthrie, Pete Seeger
...you understand polyamory and what it means to have open, honest communication.