48 Yorkville, United States
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My self-summary
Note: If you are more than 45mins away...probably not going to happen. If you are in another state...its not going to happen.

I will be happy to chat and correspond (not really into if that is what you are looking for...good luck...I hope you find what you are looking for...), but I am not interested in a long distance relationship. Being a single parent, I really don't have a lot of extra time, so I would prefer to be able to spend as much time with my partner rather than my car , so that is why I want to keep the distance short.

I am a bisexual, open to polyamorous/open relationships (not a requirement though...I am just open to it)...pretty much just looking for a girlfriend (and/or possibly a boyfriend, though I lean more towards girlfriend...I am very picky when it comes to men, so no hard feelings if I say i am not interested) right now...nothing too serious, but I won't complain, so if that does develop... I need some companionship and a friend. The stress relief that may come with that wouldn't hurt either ;-). My ultimate goal is to find someone for a long term relationship...not sure about marriage just yet...but at least a long term relationship. I needs someone I can trust and someone that can be open and honest with me. I am sick of liars, cheaters, and backstabbers. I will be open and honest with you and I expect the same back. I want to know that I will have someone there during the good and the bad and know that they won't give up, just as I won't. I am a web developer by trade, Pagan Minister, disabled Army veteran (yes, I do have some physical issues...but don't let that stop you ;-) ), father, lover, SciFi fan, adventurous, fun loving guy.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a web developer by trade. I am pretty politically active as well as active on the civil rights scene and currently the webmaster and Director of media and marketing for the Kendall County Democrats and a Precinct Committeeman. Being involved in our political processes is important. Democracy is not a spectator sport. I am co-founder of Fox Valley Pride. We started that mainly as a protest group when Chik-Fil-A opened up in Oswego, IL and we wanted to protest it. We are trying to steer it into more of a social organization that focuses on LGBTQ rights. We serve mainly Kane and Kendall Counties in IL.
I’m really good at
Technical things, computers, sex (i would like to think so anyway), children, animals, fixing things, being a complete PIA.
The first things people usually notice about me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book..Michael Morecock, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Tolkien, WIlliam Blake, Shakespeare

Movies: Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Dogma, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Stargate

Music: Metal, Rock, Hard Rock, Classic Rock, Folk

Food: Cajun, Italian, Asian, Indian, and just about everything else out there *grin*
The six things I could never do without
Family, my computer, my car, caffeine, my dog and my cats.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future and where we are headed, spiritual stuff, philosophical stuff, sex, finances, politics.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home on my computer...I don't get out as much as I would like. Come rescue me...PLEASE!!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not much is private with me
You should message me if
1. If you find me interesting/sexy/irresistible/etc...*grin*

2. If you like intellectual guys with a tough guy exterior. I look like a biker, but I am very intellectual and have a very broad educational I am a computer programmer ;-)

3. Someone who is very active and participates in the processes that run our country..aka...I organize and protest and volunteer my time to candidates i back. We don't have to agree politically...just be active in what you believe. That's how the country works!

4. You enjoy sex and sexual things. You enjoy sexuality as well. You are open to exploring new avenues of exploring both...having the I will try anything once attitude is a good thing.

5. You are not looking to jump into anything serious at first, but have a serious, long term relationship in mind as the end game. With that said, until I find that, I could go for some causal sex too...I need the stress relief ;-) I shoot blanks BTW :-D

6. You are very open and honest and do not play games (well you play the fun games LOL). My last relationship was riddled with lies, cheating, and deception...I do not wish to repeat that. I would rather be hurt with the truth than devastated by lies.

7. Age is not an issue to me, so as long as you are legal, and we click, I am game.

8. If you are in the area (the closer the better...I am a single parent, so I don't have a lot of time to waste driving). If you live more than a 45min drive away, it's probably not going to happen. if you live in another state, it's definitely not going to happen.