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My self-summary
Hello, My name Pagan.
I believe life is what we make of it. Age is just a number, and a dozen other cliches that happen to be true.
Open mindedness is a must for starting a new friendship with me. I know we will not agree on everything, but isn't that the idea? Conventional ideas, unconventional ones. Ones on any and all topics, sports, literature, games, religions. Agreeing or not, I will always listen, and respect what you have to say.

SEX. There I said it. Yes, I am a sexual being. You need to a healthy sex drive, if we click. So if you are turned on by short fat chicks with a sassy attitude please drop me a line.
Don't have to be long term to be fun.

I love the expression Holy Cats! And often use it in conversation. So if you are the type of person this would offend, please move along. I don't have space in my life for that kind of hard core hater. lol

I am into board/card games, video games, movies, and long meandering conversations that don't seem to go anywhere but non-the-less feel as if you have gotten something when you are finished.
What I’m doing with my life
I am working an amazing job, that I love. That allows me to help people, make them happy, feed my own spirit, and laugh, daily. Blessed Be.
At home I am hopefully doing a good job at raising two to the most interesting people I have ever met, loving their Dad, painting, writing, and creating new games.
I’m really good at
Poetry, writing, telling jokes, artwork, sex, anything creative. Playing the guitar badly, carrying a tune without a bucket. Loving life, in all its forms, (Spiders are safe in my house, as long as they don't bite.) Meta meditation, sensual arts, and figuring out puzzles of all kinds.
The first things people usually notice about me
My laugh, In fact people tell me it is infectious. naturally drawing them in. Or the curly hair, or being fat, and sexy, which can throw a lot of people off their game. You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are The house of the falling leaves, World War Z, WarBots, the ethical slut, and The places that scare you by Pema Chodron. Though I read a lot, those are the ones that have stayed with me.
Movies are all over the place, syfy, horror, comedy, even a few documentaries, if the subject is interesting. Too many to name all, but a few are, Millennium Actress, Star Wars/Trek in all their incarnations, The Lake House, Pacific Rim, and The Mortal Instruments.
As for TV shows, I watch bones, CSI, Doctor Who, Lost girl, Being Human, and The Walking Dead. A few others from time to time.

Music? It is almost always playing at our house. Love it, every genre has its time and place. From top 40, to noise, punk,metal,country, classical, blues, soul and bebop. I love Jonathan Coulton, Merzbow,SJ Tucker, Johnny Cash, Hank Williams 111, and The troubadours of divine Bliss.
Six things I could never do without
My kids, time to create, passion, laughter, My Husband, and interesting people to talk to.

Some of these things overlap, but there you go.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I want to do next. Current paintings I am working on. Compassion for all beings. Opening my heart, seeing myself, and liking that person a little more every day. Living for today, because we are never promised more than that.
On a typical Friday night I am
This could be a very wide range of things. I could be out on the town with grell74 Home playing games. Out with friends, or up to my elbows in a project. Friday is just another night. I try and make the most of them all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a birth mark on my shoulder that looks like snoopy.
You should message me if
If Non-monogamous relationships do not frighten you.

If you need an awesome new friend/lover/both/either

If you love board/card/video games.

If you are interested in knowing more about the awesome woman that wrote this.

If you have a desire for coffee & conversation.

You want to tell me a joke to hear me laugh.
The two of us