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My self-summary
This is "Paloma," and I'm her good friend who is going to brag about her, so a good man can discover this treasure of a lady.

Paloma is one of the finest, most endearing, lovely women I have ever known. She is an amazing friend. A woman who has walked her share of rough paths and, through it, gained dignity and wisdom. She is one of the most down-to-earth people I know. She is physically beautiful, but her heart is a treasure of rare beauty, and some man out there will be incredibly lucky to win her love.

Paloma has been fully invested in raising two bright, interesting kids on her own while maintaining her own business for years. Her incredible compassion, creative talent, magnanimous and accepting spirit has made her a brilliant professional in her long career. In fact, magnanimous is the perfect word to describe her. She has walked with many people through really difficult life challenges in her profession, bringing them beauty, love, support, and care.

Paloma would thrive in a relationship with a good-hearted, strong but humble, intelligent, steady but lively, responsible, decent, mature (not "old" -- she is too young in spirit for sedentary or dreary), hopeful, kind man with a good sense of humor and a responsible life. She's looking for an open-hearted man, a class act, who has the capacity to appreciate her uniqueness and incredible creativity. A man who has the capacity to cherish a woman and treat her honorably, giving more than he takes. A man who is as much as a treasure as she is.

She is a delight, an amazing listener, great fun, up for adventure, and deserves to be cherished and treated to the best. She's fun and a bit ADD, but don't be fooled -- occasional flightiness masks a deep, intelligent soul in this woman. And maybe low blood sugar that a good meal will take care of.
What I’m doing with my life
Heading down a new path with hopes of rich experiences meeting wonderful, generous, interesting people. Trying to settle into a new abode. Ready to take a break from WAAAAY too much (necessitated) work and enjoy life a lot more. Continuing to work, making a difference giving and loving the people in her world, and just being her wonderful self.
I’m really good at
Making people feel comfortable, lighting up a room, offering support, genuine care and comfort, making people look beautiful, cooking good-tasting healthy food, being an honest and good soul, welcoming everyone, making art, living on the right side of the brain, enjoying life and people.
The first things people usually notice about me
her beautiful smile, sparkling eyes and generous heart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
loves., magazines decorating ,fashion 'health and beauty,gardening...and loves house plan magazines to rearrange and dream over.cookbooks and how to books.Inspirational books ...craft how to's....
Six things I could never do without
This is Paloma answering this question....i could never be without my friends and family ..a home ,my car ,my week at a glance calender ...a dog... and friends that care enough to write a beautifully careing profile on cupid .com .I would love to return the favor but not near good enough to do her justice ....she would be a great catch guys ....just sayin.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my future...and creating things .....making a home a home ...what i can do for to make a difference...and i THINK an awful lot about organizing my life........THINK about getting envolved in something active like classes or learning something new .
On a typical Friday night I am
spending time with kids or friends ,family sometimes or spending time with my son's dog (that would be my grand dog) resting ......watching a movie .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think my friends and family worry more about not having a relationship than I do .....but if I were to meet the right man ..and we both could enjoy each other and be happy with each other without a lot of drama and pretentiousness it would be more than wonderful I like to travel but I would enjoy home a lot ....having friends and family visit and making it a healing sanctuary and a fun place to retreat from this hectic world.
You should message me if
you have been holding out for a woman worth her salt. if you know how to and want to cherish and value a beautiful woman. if you want to open your life to a dignified but incredibly down-to-earth presence who will bring so much to you. if you are intelligent but open-minded and open-spirited. if you have a good sense of humor and aren't a control freak. if you are a man who takes good care of himself and wants to care for a mature but incredibly youthful, beautiful, delightful lady.

if you are looking for a treasure and willing to pay the price for someone this valuable.

if you are a gentleman who has learned to pursue a woman with respect, patience, in an honoring way, and without desperation or demandingness.

you are patient with a technologically challenged woman who doesn't type very well nor check her email regularly.

too much to ask for? you don't know until you ask. believe me, for the right man, it will be worth the effort!
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