Pamela1974
42 Arden, United States
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My self-summary
Finally getting around to updating and making a more complete profile. It feels a little like being the new kid in class and put on the spot to stand up in front of the class and say something about yourself.

Some basics, I'm an Asheville native, yes I know it's rare to meet one! While I like it here I yearn to live in other places. Being fairly outgoing and gregarious I can have a conversation with just about anyone. However, I do like conversations not interrogations. There should be a give and take, a flow to things. If I feel like I'm having to drag a conversation out of someone, I'll get bored there are only so many questions I can think to ask.

As I've grown older I find it much easier to speak my mind,nyou will pretty much know what I'm thinking. I am Southern however, and good manners are bred into us, I try to be kind and think and make sure of what I'm saying before I speak rashly.

While I don't believe relationships happen over night, the course of a date or two or something to jump in and out of faster than the wind changes, I am looking for a serious relationship. More than just someone to pass the time with, I'm looking for that special someone. That unique blend of sophistication, intelligence, creativity and dominance. I also prefer to meet sooner rather than later. It's really hard to have an actual conversation through email or texts. Chemistry is also important and sometimes no matter how well things seem to be going it's just not there. Better to find out right away.

As a strong independent woman, I don't need taken care of, I can do that myself. I do however favor more traditional gender roles. I like a man confident enough to to plan a date and ask a woman out. I like to be wooed, to feel desired and like I'm worth the effort.

WOW! That's a lot of I statements! Hopefully it says a little about me and glimpse of what I'm looking for. So if you are interested and think we might mesh, I look forward to hearing from you. Happy Hunting 😊

***Note: I rarely make first contact but if I've liked, winked, favorited or any other of these internet flirting techniques I'm waiting on you to make the first move 😉
What I’m doing with my life
Working to take care of my family.
I’m really good at
Problem solving, creating things (whatever strikes my fancy at the time) and I'm a pretty good cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmm... not sure.
The six things I could never do without
My daughter
Books
Music
Wine
Sunshine
Friends
On a typical Friday night I am
At home relaxing after work. Or maybe at the bar doing the same thing.
You should message me if
You are not looking for a hook-up. You can write an intelligent sentence. You want to go out and enjoy what life has to offer. If you message me and I don't respond I am not interested, sorry attraction is a part of things and I hope you find what you are looking for.
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