40New Haven, United States
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My self-summary
I'm easy to talk to and hard to figure out. If you get inside I will be loyal to a fault. I will surprise you, comfort you and listen to you. I will also occasionally be infuriating and stubborn. I'll always treat you with respect, and I expect the same.

I like kayaking, road trips, dinner parties, going out to shows, museums, thrift stores, sitting around a fire...

My shoes are a size 13.
I've lived in New Haven for 12 years.
I've been to 10 countries.
I've been in 8 movies.
My longest relationship was 6 years.
Last year I ran my first 5k.
I have 2 tattoos
I started one business, and failed in one business.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to figure it all out. To varying degrees of success.

My job title is Advertising & Marketing Manager, previous ones have included Art Director, Graphic Designer, Bouncer and toilet paper factory worker.
I’m really good at
Cooking, planning adventures, trivia, picking friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have many leather-bound books and my apartment smells of rich mahogany.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Vonnegut, Cervantes, Buddhist Philosophy, and an admitted weakness for trashy Conan novels.

Movies: Coen brothers, Wes Anderson, Hedwig, Spinal Tap, Monty Python, Godzilla movies, Empire of the Sun, Goonies, Princess Bride, Mel Brooks, Woody Allen...

Music: way to much to get into but... Beach House, Man Man, Van Morrison, Tarkio, Snake Oil, Mister Heavenly, Soul Coughing, Devendra Banhart, Menomena, Architecture in Helsinki, Urge Overkill, Mtx, The Avalanches, Grandaddy, Marvin Gaye, David Bowie, Led Zeppelin, Nick Cave, Dirty Projectors, M.T. Bearington, Kimono Draggin’, The Felice Brothers, Soltero, The Shins, Arcade Fire, Al Green, Battles, Built to Spill, Black Angels, Beck, The Books, Galaxie 500, Clap Your Hands Say Yeah, Primus, Radio 4, Elliott Smith, Iron & Wine, Cake, The Fiery Furnaces, Levon Helm, The Dresden Dolls, Twin Shadow, Ernie Graham, TV On The Radio, Bonnie Prince Billy, The Brian Jonestown Massacre, Beta Band, Bad Religion, Black Sabbath, Beastie Boys, Band of Horses, Elvis Costello, Cibo Matto, The Cure, Johnny Cash, The Clash, Can Kickers, Calexico, Curtis Mayfield, The Decemberists, Devendra Banhart, DJ Shadow, Destroyer, Dungen, Death Cab for Cutie, Depeche Mode, Etta James, Faust, Fela Kuti, Fugazi, Ben Folds, Flaming Lips, Girl Talk, Gomez, PJ Harvey, Handsome Furs, Jon Spencer, Jayhawks, james, Ted Leo, Massive Attack, Microphones, Mu-Ziq, Magnetic Fields, Aimee Mann, Bob Marley, Marvin Pontiac, Moldy Peaches, Mountain goats, Morphine, Modest Mouse, Neil Young, Neutral Milk Hotel, Okkervil River, PIXIES, Pavement, Pedro the Lion, Pink Floyd, Queen, Radiohead, King Khan And The Shrines... if you are into music let's geek out shall we?
Six things I could never do without
Friends, Music, Hope, Adventure, Coffee, Water (Bodies thereof)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
time travel
On a typical Friday night I am
my life hasn't had a "typical" for a little while
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I keep financial papers in a cardboard box, and old love letters in a safe.
You should message me if
You are amazing and would like someone to appreciate that.
The two of us