PaulJ77
39 Birmingham, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
Confident, happy, creative and fun. I been in Birmingham for two years and am looking to meet new friends and expand my social circle. I am in a committed, but open, relationship and am keen to meet others who want to develop friendships or more. I am particularly interested to talk to those who lead a polyamorous lifestyle or at least have an interest or respect for such things.
What I’m doing with my life
I work full time in a university but my real passion comes from my photographic work in my spare time. I have made good friends across the UK, and some across different parts of the world, from my photography whether they are models, photographers, makeup artists and stylists. I have shot events ranging from corporate events right through to fetish and kink extravaganzas - the more interesting stories tend to come from the latter ;) haha.

Love eating out, the cinema and good company. Films are a passion, though anything visually appealing perks my interest. Music is also a passion and my heart would crumble if I ever lost my spotify subscription!
I’m really good at
Talking. Particularly talking in a welsh accent. This I do well.

Also, my photography work has been complimented quite a bit. If you are interested to see more let me know.

Apparently I am also a good listener as well and that, coupled with my talky-ness, means conversations can zip past like a blur. Beware :)
The first things people usually notice about me
Cheeky grin? Mischievous sparkly blue eyes? The indentation of camera equipment usage on my baby faced cheeks? Who knows... you tell me :)

Oh, and without doubt, it is my fabulously filthy mind and unfiltered ability to speak it!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Tooooo much to list, however, some examples...

Books by Laurell K Hamilton, Anne /Rice, Raymond E Feist's The Magician (and follow on books), books on psychology, NLP, any vampire themed books and others.

Music taste again varies considerably and includes Rock, Chill Out, Dance and classical. The Prodigy remain one of my favourites, Moloko, Metallica, Daft Punk and many many more.

Movies would include The Matrix, Blade, The Crow, Gladiator, Ninja Scroll, Usual suspects...

Food is pretty wide spread. I love chinese, indian, italian, mexican, japanese. Mushrooms and prawns are a no-no *shivers*
The six things I could never do without
My phone, high speed internet, music, good company, tasty food and intimate moments *bliss*
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. How I can convince the universe to help me win the lottery. Positivity on its own just isn't cutting it!

2. Photography - ideas, concepts, editing techniques - overall how I can make people, things and places look good. This makes me happy (and sometimes frustrated!)
On a typical Friday night I am
There isn't really a typical Friday - variety is the spice of life!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once went out on a friend's hen do. They made me wear mascara. I looked amazing! Ha!
You should message me if
You like what you read.
You dont like what you read.
You are bored.
You adore me.
You think you know me.
You think you are related to me.
You are my long, lost relation.
You think it would be fun.
You want to give me money.
You like champagne.
You hate prawns or mushrooms.
You are interesting.
You are not interesting but you want to be.
You want to share my lottery winnings when I get them.
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