Paupak
48Warminster, United States
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My self-summary
San Francisco was my home for over 22 years and I loved it. It surprised me often with a laugh, shifting of perspective and a bit of what.. the ..?
I was raised in the suburbs of north of Philly. And now I am back to my hometown. I say this to you because I have a healthy mix of West and East coast sensibility.

I do enjoy learning something different with interesting wordplay. Interesting, funny, compelling stories, I'm ..listening.
Good friends, laughter and stumbling into a random compelling conversation.-

"The true mystery of the world is not the invisible but the visible." Oscar Wilde
What I’m doing with my life
Livin it and you know.. it's going to be good and sometimes tough, I accept that. Though interested with all of the good and the make it better.
Could be the three of the most important questions you can ask yourself: Who am I? Where am I going? Who is going with me?
I’m really good at
Being a grown man. Aware this is a one sided introduction. You can ask me anything, If I do not know, I will say so. I can speak about almost anything, try me. Listening just the right amount. Speaking and talking is certainly different, if you know the difference, you get it. Choosing the steps over the elevator, back roads over the interstate. Seeing the room, and at times giggling to myself at the silliness. Having a conversation I haven't had. A daydreaming romantic realist. Left over right, openness over obfuscation and chocolate shakes. Enjoying thinking around a problem. Directions and fixing something broken.
The first things people usually notice about me
The blue eyes, a bit tall. May have a quick wit and smile with ears that listen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Ones that resonate with me and flip my preconceptions. Currently reading "The War of Art", "Quiet" and "Set the boy free" by Johnny Marr

Billie Holiday on a Friday evening after work, with a warm breeze coming through the windows.
Six things I could never do without
Fun! Walks at dusk, gut busting laughter, close friends, live music, just the right amount of coffee, a comfortable bed, hope, a lot of it, trust, a kiss that that makes you step back and say to yourself, wow. Camping by fire with new, old friends, meaningful cuddling, yes more laughing, a good meal, old friends that hold the stories that may make you cringe being repeated to a stranger. A Sunday morning swagger through a quiet city, dancing by candlelight. I have a good attitude towards living my life. Love and Art that resonates, maybe your shenanigans and my passport. I need more than six, we all are more than a list of ideas, right? It is what is between your commas that is interesting to me.
Her sly smile, sharp, interesting wit and endearing wiggle...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where the hell are you? How much of my life is really spent untangling my headphones. Experienceing something with someone I have yet to feel. Laughing a lot more with someone who gets this because I think I got this. Wondering what you think of this.
On a typical Friday night I am
With friends or having a quiet night in with a good meal, movie or book. Hopefully enjoying it, depends. Sometimes at a bar and probably talking with strangers about something random
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am open emotionally and I am very happy I am here. Has been a winding interesting experience, much introspection. I do love where this is going

There are many thoughtful, funny, interesting stories I have yet to hear

I do enjoy long form TV and radio interviews, yes I am talking to you Howad, Charlie Rose, Marc Maron, Frontline

I know nothing about fantasy football and I really want to keep it that way.

This truly may be a spectacular waste of my time ..

I lost a lot of my freckles, though the hardy ones hang on.

I was very young when I was born, a lot has happened since then and I am willing to talk about all of it.

I've grown better with age
You should message me if
you can bring the funny and want to try again. You have read this far, I know it is tough trying for a connection, crazy huh. Maybe you would like to and able to have a good laugh at yourself, I do. Looking for spunk, a lot of it. Awareness of what you want and want someone who is willing to try. Heartfelt giggling and jokes of our own. Could you bring me something different? I can, if you can.
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