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My self-summary
Never love someone who treats you like you're ordinary. -Oscar Wilde

I'm not ashamed or embarrassed to say that I am 46 years old. I'm healthy, smart, stable, funny, compassionate, and real. I'm not ageist so if you think we might be a match let me know, no matter your age. Just know that I'm not having any more kids.

I have two children. They are great and they have an awesome dad. I am not looking for a dad for them. I'm looking for a partner for me.

I love to travel and explore, then retreat into my creature comforts.

I love art and music. I just hosted my first house concert last weekend. It was a big hit so I'll likely do it again.

Working on getting a shipping container granny flat built in my backyard.

I do not get along with average. I like 'em a little weird.
What I’m doing with my life
Not hurting.

I enjoy working hard and then relaxing and having fun. This year I've traveled to the Pacific Northwest, summer 2015 was the Mediterranean (Naples, Cinque Terre, Provence, Barcelona), and Oaxaca, Mexico. New Orleans later this year. I love to walk walk walk all day, try new foods and drinks, soak up history and culture....
I’m really good at
....pretty much anything I set my mind to.

I have a science degree and a social science degree. I'm part nerd, part artist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
• The New York Times
• I Fucking Love Science
• art museums
• The Daily Show
• Lady Parts Justice
• Dwell magazine
• Atomic Ranch magazine

Still catching up on all the fabulous music that's happened since I became a mom. I like a whole bunch of genres.
Six things I could never do without
• family
• pets
• creativity
• garlic
• coffee
• touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
ADA compliant interior design that is also modern and straightforward. I'm currently working with a contractor to turn two shipping containers in my back yard into a pool house / guest house. So fun!

I would describe myself as a social introvert. I can command a room if I want to. I usually don't want to. I like silence sometimes because my brain is always going. I believe I'm extremely intuitive. I can figure out people in seconds. It's kind of weird and I'm always correct. I don't (usually) use my powers for evil.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends and family in my backyard: swimming, grilling, chilling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a life motto.
You should message me if
If you are emotionally stable, fun, odd, and mature, come at me!

Don't be a poo poo head. If I took the time to write something to you, write something back. I'm human.

‎...Lo que quiero para mi, lo quiero para todos...
The two of us