35 Ventura, United States
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My self-summary
I have a pretty full life and I enjoy it :) I make time for the things that are important and I'm looking for someone to come along with me on the ride! I enjoy a good think and a good drink.

I'm friendly and warm... according to coworkers and friends alike. I enjoy the indoors and reading and writing. I like the idea of hiking more than the practical application of it. I enjoy thinking about thinking and why we think about what we think about. I like my job and have volunteered to go back early because I missed my coworkers and my documents. I like going to museums and thinking about going to the beach (because I have two shades, snow and cooked lobster). I like going to baseball games and give tips like I could do what they do. I think I'm fairly funny but so far no offers for my very own comedy show have been forthcoming.

You (maybe?)
Logical, planner, educated and career minded, down with emotions but perhaps wears them on a sleeve under a heavy coat. Also if you understand mathematics and don't mind someone enjoying just listening to you lecture. I like lectures... listening and once in a while giving them, please be down with this. I also enjoy listening to how you got your PhD. or the different types of education you got including that year you spent globe trotting, just no playing poor. I have a weird soft spot for left handed men... don't ask questions, it just gets weird.
What I’m doing with my life
I am an archivist. I am endlessly curious seriously... and I must know everything. I'm pretty nosy too, I can take 'no' for an answer but I'll try my best to figure out why you don't want to tell me something.

I'm also a writer and have published a few poems. Working on a novel and really wanting to put together a chap book in the future.

I occasionally pick up some part time work grading papers by high school students, this has lead me to several conclusions including the American education system needs an over haul and that I am actually a fantastic writer and to never doubt my talents on that!
I’m really good at
Creative projects, especially writing. Taking long hot showers and wasting water (sorry Cali I am working on it!) eating delicious food, petting my cat (well she will have to tell you if I'm any good at it) working on 'telling it like it is'
The first things people usually notice about me
My contagious laugh!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A) I have a ton of favorite books I read mostly non fiction but enjoy fan fic too! In a few book clubs around town as well.

Currently reading: I read a lot of poetry in random journals.

B) I like the classics, found a great theater around my place that shows older films and I love that. I prefer comedies and some drama, but I don't do horror movies, real life is scary enough.

Current To Watch: Not much right now...

Current Theater: Pillowman is a freaky play and everyone should see it but man is it weird! Loved it, needless to say. Grey Gardens are up next :)

C) T.V. - I mostly use my TV for news (MSNBC most of the time) and sports. I'm a baseball fan so MLB network is on if the news isn't. Once in a while a House Hunters or two... houseporn it's what's for fun!

D) I'm pretty much open to anything and listen to most things. I listen to lyrics and find the poetry in them, then listen to the actual music. I write parodies so... half the time when I listen to a song I'm trying to figure out how to tweak it.

Current Listens: Randomly found myself listening to late 2000's soft rock and revisiting grad school years... wtf... time for Mike Posner I mean damn... DJ Snake... that's hip right now right!?!

E) I'm a foodie, Ill try anything once!! Big carnivore but also have a thing for cheeses.

Currently Cooking: Going to attempt a mozzarella puff pastry thing... wish me luck!
The six things I could never do without
Intellectually stimulating conversation
A couple of good friends
Resource of some sort to research and write
Good food
Some sort of stability, I enjoy exploring I just need a place to come back to
One to grow on :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Currently ... the elections, writing, trying to make my poems bleed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends, I am a friendly introvert so I enjoy going out and doing things. I go to plays and book clubs and an evening out once in a while. That being said after a few nights of heavy socializing I need a day or so to recover so depending on how the rest of the week goes depends on what I want to do on Friday :) Just ask though!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Avid Fan-fic reader... yeah. I'm pretty open on things so there isn't much to hid ... also everything I think is written on my face.
You should message me if
I can't see if you star me so leave a message!

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