PermanentStudy
32 Washington, United States
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My self-summary
Let me get this out of the way... I am kinky and poly. If you are not alright with this, I wish you luck in your search. :)

I'm living in the Southwest which is quite a hoot at times. My street looks a bit run-down compared with anything even a block or two over, but the rent is cheap and I can hear when the Nats score a run or when Bruce Springsteen plays "Born to Run". I will say, I would do awful things to get a Wawa within a few blocks of my apartment.

I consider myself a bit of a geek and a borderline dork at times.

What am I looking for?
I would like to find someone who is a bit silly, yet can carry on a conversation about passionate topics. I like talking about beer, but I would like to talk about more than just beer. Tell me your thoughts on the current Supreme Court docket or on the apparent disconnect between feminism and submissive BDSM roles or the amazing new sci-fi/fantasy/noir novel you just finished. I love finding new music, introduce me to a band you love. Favorites I have found this way include Nina Simone, Neutral Milk Hotel and Robin Bullock.

I currently have a partner. I love her dearly and I hope we have many many years together. Right now, I'm not looking for anything terribly serious. I know this cuts down the pool of available partners by something like 99.73%, but polyamory is an essential part of me. I hate the cliche, but when my partners are happy, I'm happy. When my girlfriend tells me about the lovely dinner she made for her husband and how he spoils her rotten, I get all warm and fuzzy inside. I appear to do compersion well. I'm looking for "secondary" types of relationships. I have made the rookie mistake of trying to have two primary type relationships at once and it wasn't fair to anyone. Polyamory: the only relationship type that requires Excel mastery.

Okay, if I haven't scared you off yet, send me a message. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working at a new organization dedicated to consumer financial rights. Yay for working at start-ups!

Somehow I can't shake
the feeling I might make
a difference to the human race.

I would describe my job a bit more, but I'm fairly certain it is boring enough that doing so would be considered a war crime under the Geneva Convention.
I’m really good at
I'm somewhat handy, given the right tools and some time (and usually a guide) I can fix quite a bit if stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
Glasses, graying hair. Seriously, I really am in my 30's. I just look like I'm about to have a mid-life crisis.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Lord of the Rings, Slaughter House Five, Dresden Files

Marvel movies, Dredd, Shawshank Redemption

Top Gear UK (the Clarkson days), Dr Who, DC & Marvell's TV/Netflix Universes, various YouTube and Twitch streams.

Pink Floyd, Nina Simone, Dave Van Ronk, Pearl Jam, Rush, Robin Bullock (Yes, I am a geek)

Currently stuck in my head: Queen - Bohemian Rhapsody

Currently binge reading: Stephen King's Dark Tower series. I've been meaning to get to that for years.

Favorite Comedians:
Dead: George Carlin, Richard Pryor, Patrice O'Neil
Alive: Louis C.K., Jim Norton, Amy Schumer, Patton Oswalt

The best movie line of all time is: "Hello. My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die."
The six things I could never do without
1: My music
2: Food
3: The occasional moment of silence
4: Internet Access, I know, I'm an addict.
5: A comfy chair
6: Good beer. For example, I am a fan of Monk's Cafe in Philly. Local Option's Blood ov the Kings is amazing on draft.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"If (coworker/contractor) doesn't get back to me about (his or her project), I'm going to beat someone with a rubber hose."

The inevitable technological singularity.

What wacky shit my character is going to get into next gaming session.
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays are generally my night to chill out and hang around home. That being said, the rest of my weekend is usually fairly busy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a kinkster. You can find me on FetLife under PermanentStudent.

http://fetlife.com/users/7287
Dang, I do have a pretty low number on there.

Actually, the really private thing is that I've just started playing pen and paper RPGs and boardgames. I'm 32 and still finding new nerdy things to do.
You should message me if
You are a fellow geeky/poly/kinky person.
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