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My self-summary
Let me get this out of the way... I am kinky and poly. If you are not alright with this, I wish you luck in your search. :)

I've recently moved from DC down to Woodbridge. It's so lovely to have not one, but two Wawa's within short driving distance. I was already sort of used to the commute, so the transition hasn't been nearly as rough as I feared.

I consider myself a bit of a geek and a borderline dork at times.

What am I looking for?
I would like to find someone who is a bit silly, yet can carry on a conversation about passionate topics. I like talking about beer, but I would like to talk about more than just beer. Tell me your thoughts on the current Supreme Court docket or on the apparent disconnect between feminism and submissive BDSM roles or the amazing new sci-fi/fantasy/noir novel you just finished. I love finding new music, introduce me to a band you love. Favorites I have found this way include Nina Simone, Neutral Milk Hotel and Robin Bullock.

I currently have a partner. I love her dearly and I hope we have many many years together. Right now, I'm not looking for anything terribly serious. I know this cuts down the pool of available partners by something like 99.73%, but polyamory is an essential part of me. I hate the cliche, but when my partners are happy, I'm happy. When my girlfriend tells me about the lovely dinner she made for her husband and how he spoils her rotten, I get all warm and fuzzy inside. I appear to do compersion well. I'm looking for "secondary" types of relationships. I have made the rookie mistake of trying to have two primary type relationships at once and it wasn't fair to anyone. Polyamory: the only relationship type that requires Excel mastery.

Okay, if I haven't scared you off yet, send me a message. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working at a new organization dedicated to consumer financial rights. Yay for working at start-ups!

Somehow I can't shake
the feeling I might make
a difference to the human race.

I would describe my job a bit more, but I'm fairly certain it is boring enough that doing so would be considered a war crime under the Geneva Convention.
I’m really good at
I'm somewhat handy, given the right tools and some time (and usually a guide) I can fix quite a bit if stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
Glasses, graying hair. Seriously, I really am in my 30's. I just look like I'm about to have a mid-life crisis.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Lord of the Rings, Slaughter House Five, Dresden Files, The Disappearing Spoon, The Long Goodbye, Neverwhere

Marvel movies, Dredd, Shawshank Redemption

Top Gear UK (the Clarkson days), The Grand Tour, Dr Who, DC & Marvell's TV/Netflix Universes, various YouTube and Twitch streams.

Pink Floyd, Nina Simone, Dave Van Ronk, Pearl Jam, Rush, Robin Bullock, Smashing Pumpkins, Amy Macdonald, London Grammar, Opeth, deadmau5, Philadelphia Orchestra (Yes, I am a geek)

Currently stuck in my head: Armcannon

Currently binge reading: I just finished listening to the Dark Tower and am now looking for my next project. Maybe I'll catch up on Welcome to Night Vale

Favorite Comedians:
Dead: George Carlin, Richard Pryor, Patrice O'Neil
Alive: Louis C.K., Jim Norton, Amy Schumer, Patton Oswalt

The best movie line of all time is: "Hello. My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die."
Six things I could never do without
1: My music
2: Food
3: The occasional moment of silence
4: Internet Access, I know, I'm an addict.
5: A comfy chair
6: Good beer. For example, I am a fan of Monk's Cafe in Philly. Local Option's Blood ov the Kings is amazing on draft.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"If (coworker/contractor) doesn't get back to me about (his or her project), I'm going to beat someone with a rubber hose."

How much better ice cream tastes now that I'm on a low carb diet. (Thirteen lbs lost in three weeks!)

The inevitable technological singularity.

What wacky shit my character is going to get into next gaming session.
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays are generally my night to chill out and hang around home. That being said, the rest of my weekend is usually fairly busy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a kinkster. You can find me on FetLife under PermanentStudent.
Dang, I do have a pretty low number on there.

Actually, the really private thing is that I've recently started playing pen and paper RPGs and boardgames.
You should message me if
You are a fellow geeky/poly/kinky person.
The two of us