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My self-summary
I've fleshed out the Q&A portion of my profile with greater detail and explanation — some of the questions aren't as simple as choosing one of the few options provided, and context can make a big difference in how those answers are interpreted.

I don't believe in "guilty pleasures" because I don't believe in issuing guilt to pleasure. If it makes you happy and hurts no one, lean in and get weird.

I'm not treating this with any urgency — more into relationships which compliment than complete each other. I'm also into polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. If you already have a partner, their input and feelings are important to me, too.

Kinky feminist into disputing gender norms. We can discuss that more as it becomes relevant, though.
The first things people usually notice about me
You tell me.
The six things I could never do without
-Intersectional feminism
-Deep, hearty belly laughs

I'd probably just waste the last one on something dumb like flavours of Crispers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How awesome it is that our brains just perform complex tasks like decoding language or physics without consciously thinking about it. I've never been hit by a car in my life, but I've never actively calculated for velocity or inertia before/while crossing the street. If you don't think that's fascinating, you're doing it wrong.

What the person on the bus next to me was like as a child (or what they'll be like as an adult/elder). I'm curious about the personal stories of the background actors in my life.

On a typical Friday night I am
6/7 of the way through the calendar week.

I don't like 'typical', but I could happily make TED Talks & old-fashioneds my default fallback.

I'm a big fan of whimsy. Let's have an adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Given the chance, I will totally snoop your iTunes/music library and high-five you for your guilty pleasures.

Hyperbole is literally worse than Hitler.
You should message me if have a suggestion as to who should play me in a film about my life. have a TED Talk you want to recommend to me. want to play a real-life game of "Where's Waldo?" — get the appropriate costume (glasses and all), head downtown and I'll find you. Or vice versa. want to join me for wine and Scrabble/Jenga in a nearby park during the afternoon, or walk the trails and tell ghost stories at night.

These are just fun ways to meet new people. I don't take OKC meet-ups too seriously. No pressure, no expectation, no worries. If we click, cool; if not, cool.