I don't believe in "guilty pleasures" because I don't believe in issuing guilt to pleasure. If it makes you happy and hurts no one, lean in and get weird.
I'm not treating this with any urgency — more into relationships which complement than complete each other. I'm also into polyamory and ethical non-monogamy, so if you already have a partner, their input and feelings are important to me, too.
Sex-positive, kinky feminist into disrupting gender norms. We can discuss that more as it becomes relevant, though.
-Deep, hearty belly laughs
What the person on the bus next to me was like as a child (or what they'll be like as an adult/elder). I'm curious about the personal stories of the background actors in my life.
I don't like 'typical', but I could happily make TED Talks & old-fashioneds my default fallback.
I'm a big fan of whimsy. Let's have an adventure.
Hyperbole is literally worse than Hitler.
...you have a TED Talk you want to recommend.
...you want to play a real-life game of "Where's Waldo?" — candy stripe costume, glasses; I head downtown, you find me.
...you want to join me for wine and board games in the park, or tell ghost stories at night.
...you know a good riddle.
These are just fun ways to meet new people. I don't take OKC meet-ups too seriously. No pressure, no expectation, no worries. If we click, cool; if not, cool.