46San Antonio, United States
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My self-summary
I am a 43 year old who has recently remade himself. In the last 5 years I have become a Special Ed Teacher and started Coaching high school football. I am an active person and a very social person. I am my Father's and Mother's Son, a Brother, an Uncle, and a Nephew. I am extremely family oriented, and will always be. In public, I am very friendly, and can be very extroverted. This has caused problems in the past with some dates, because they assume I'm flirting with every woman I speak to. I am a sucker for a pretty face and a beautiful smile, and will often go out of my way to get a beautiful face to smile at me. However, I am extremely loyal to those I care for, and I am not a cheater.
What I’m doing with my life
I have spent the last 3 years reinventing myself. After College, I went on the road and worked in live entertainment for several years. When I moved back to San Antonio, I realized that the ARTS don't really pay here in TX, so I've been working with at risk youth ever since. Currently, I have been working extremely hard at defying the odds. I have lost 140lbs over the last three years, by dieting and exercise. I only have 150 to go to reach my goal.
I’m really good at
Non-Verbal Communication and Non-violent Crisis Intervention. I'm also a poet, artist, and actor. I enjoy singing at my church or at Kareoke, and performing stand up comedy. I think I am really good at coaching high school football. Of course, some of the fans have yelled at me to the contrary. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
My squinted eyed smile along with my happy demeanor VS my size.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Old Country like Willie, George (Jones and Strait). Also Garth and Dwight. Then I like some old school Rap like LL coolJ, UGK, Snoop, Too Short, The Luniz. Love Sublime and Red Hot Chile Peppers, not to mention Metallica and Southern Rock. ie Tom Petty, The Outlaws, Black Crows. Then there's Journey, Rush, Scorpions, Def L. Screw it... I like most music. .....also... Let us never forget to pay homage to Roberto Nester Marley.
As far as books, here lately it seems all I have time to read are Non-literary texts about teaching. I enjoy autobiographies, and believe it or not, the books I have to teach for English. Most of which are 7th - 9th grade level. But those books are hilarious!!!!
As for Movies...... Top Gun, Tombstone (best line ever: "I'm your huckleberry.") , Blazing Saddles, Star Wars (original), Fast Times at Ridgemont High, Geez.... this list could go on and on. Just come check out my DVD collection.
I love live music and live entertainment. I attend various shows often. I enjoy the Theatre (very few musicals) and also Ballet and Opera.
I'm artistic, I paint, draw, watercolour, and throw pottery when able. I love this side of me, its the private me side.
Six things I could never do without
I assume this is not asking about the obvious food, water, air, etc.....
God would be first. Then my family (I consider close friends family), laughter, good times, good common sense, chocolate, finding trouble every now and again.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Being debt free in a few months. What my life will be like when that point arrives and how much trouble I will be getting into. Yes! I will soon yell out loud, "I'm debt FREE!"
UPDATE: As of June 2012..... I been yelling!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
If not on a football field, hanging with some friends listening to live music and/or looking for a little adventure. I been known to cut a rug or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Even though I was not the one who gave up, I failed miserably at my first marriage.
You should message me if
- If you are an honest and intelligent woman who doesn't want to change my waltz, and wouldn't mind joining in, with me as your only dance partner, then I'd like to hear from you.
- If you have read my whole profile, and you know why "I'm your huckleberry." was such great writing, I would definitely like to hear from you.
- If your smile has been known to cause men to turn to melted butter, then I want to hear from you.
- If your smoking hot and wouldn't mind a man who appreciates that part of your being a woman, let me know.
- If you enjoy that sometimes late at night or early in the morning, I won't care about anything in life except being with you. Please message me.
-If you get why you wearing my old t-shirt is sexy, even if you are "just vacuuming", and that you might have to stop vacuuming for the rest of the day. Please contact me.
-If you understood what I meant by "waltz", lets dance.
- If your obsessing with the fact that I listed 7 things I could not do without instead of 6, or that I misspelled exercise, please do not message me, go get some help.
- Lastly, and I Think it's sad that I need to add this, please DO NOT message me if you are one or more of the following: a money grubbing, stuck on yourself, mean, Heartless woman, who mistakes nice men as weak men. I am an intelligent person who is very capable of deciphering those traits, and I choose not to spend my time with these type of individuals.
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