Looking for more, appropriately. Is it possible to explore mutual curiosity, date, and not have it be a big deal? I want to meet more people, especially women, with common interests to share experiences and expand my social circle and if in the process I found a partner I'd be delighted.
I am not interested in serially monogamous dating as I don't want to waste your time or mine. If I'm smitten, intrigued or infatuated I will date you without trying to get you in bed, although I may want to. In other words, to be clear, if we are just dating and getting to know each other, I'll assume that being on this site has us dating others as well. Therefore, if you claim an interest in monogamy in relationships, I will not try to bed you until our dating becomes something more. At the same time, I'm certainly not averse to a friends with benefits either, and I mean friend, not stranger or acquaintance.
Open is good. Open is communication.
Monogamy is a state of being rather than a construct of commitment. I choose non-monogamy until the "rightness" of monogamy presents itself. To date, all my longer term relationships have been, though not by design but by circumstance. It is OK to be friends and lovers. For me, relationships are flowers to be planted, watered and given light, while growing naturally.
That said here's more.
I don't have a clever username because although I'm clever, I'm not a user.
I need more estrogen in my life. Being in construction has me mostly around men.
I'm open to dating friendships, although in my experience cuddling DOES lead to harder sex.
I like the arts. A lot.
I'm bi-sensual. I'm not afraid to hug or massage a man.
I'm as close to a gay designer in a straight guy as possible. I arrange flowers and like to make soap and nice smelling lotions.
I am not a metro-sexual as I don't have the build to pull it off.
A sewing machine is just another power tool.
Although not entrenched in the movement, I am a maker.
I own a gun. If this offends you, we're probably not a good match.
I really like burners. Not the " I give my year to the playa " kind, or the ravers, but rather the Artists, Makers and Gifters, those who are active in building a word of collaboration, gifting and anti-consumerism.
I am a freak in sheep's clothing.
I have no predisposition toward a particular body type or ethnicity in women. Does this make me open-minded or just easy?
I am creative, curious, and well read
Although they're not pretty, I've got good hands. Wink.
Teaching maker skills.
You actually want to meet.
Dinner date relationship job interviews bore you to tears and you're willing to choose an activity in order to get to know me. We might turn out to be friends.