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My self-summary
Hi. My name is Phillis. I am funny, fun, faithful, playful, and festive and many other qualities that come with being a good woman. :)

I would love to share and volunteer our time and talents together to help leave this world a better place then when we got here. To support each others passions. Life is too short and too precious to not make the best of it.
What I’m doing with my life
I still work, and unless I win the lottery, will probably do so for another 2- 4 yrs. My 2 daughters are grown and married to awesome men. I love being a grandma to my 4 grandchildren.
I do a lot of volunteering and have a heart for the homeless and battered women. I also sponsor women in recovery. I work in the Drug and Alcohol field and this is my passion, to help others out of the pit of despair, and find hope, forgivenss and peace~

I am very active, And love walking, riding my bike, fishing, going to movies, sporting events, and concerts. I love flea markets
second Saturdays in midtown, and even love historical parks and museums.
I also love going out to eat or making dinners at home, baking, arts and crafts, gardening (growing own herbs) etc...
I am one of "those" who decorate the house for every season and holiday. I love to swim, BBQ, get together with family and friends and don't mind meeting someone new. :)

I LOVE comedy, Disney, flowers for no apparent reason, children, smell goods, a bargain, good coffee, dark chocolate, nature, and comfy jammies fresh out of the fryer.

I HATE ignorance, apathy, disrespectful behavior, arrogance and tunnel vision, sex trafficing, domestic violence, drunk drivers and lying.

My two daughters (34 and 26) are happily married and I am debt and drama free and want the same in a man. I am very close to my family and am a high energy people person. Ask anything you wish and I will speak truth to you...always.

I want a take charge dominant man who knows who he is and values his health, his family and loved ones, and his work. A man of character and integrity and his word. He's funny and yet serious when he needs to be and leads me without being mean and guides me in the right direction, and protects me and makes me better than I already am. A man of similar interests, who loves God, and who will be supportive and loyal and let's us bring out the BEST in me. In return, I will love you, support you, encourage you, inspire you to be the man you were truly destined to become...bring out your best, and always have your back...(and your front) ;-) lol...
I’m really good at
Being a mom (although my 2 girls are grown and married), a grandma, and being a good friend when you need one. :) Along with those hugs, I give awesome backrubs and like to sing, too. Music is a big part of my life. It heals the soul. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my eyes, compassion, and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love comedy, romance, sci-fi and fantasy (LOTR fan) and action films. I love ALL kinds of music, from classic rock to country to jazz to hip hop to opera to gospel. I am not a huge television watcher, but I do like the History Channel, Nova, cooking shows, Criminal Minds, The Big Bang Theory, Person of Interest, and Downton Abbey. :) (well, I guess I DO watch TV, don't I?) LOL! I love to snuggle up in the couch or by the fireplace and watch an old movie in my big fluffy socks... or ...something sexier....when the mood strikes us. ;-) (it strikes me a LOT!)

Food? That is the "F" word .... trying SO hard to have a healthy relationship with it. Lost 70 pounds. Got 30 more to go... (that is also my "private thing" that is a secret about myself... ) shhhhh... but i will always indulge in a great glass of my favorite cab.... yum!

But I love to cook and am a huge fan of Italian, Asian, Mediteranian, ALL Seafood, Sushi and American cuisine. However, salads, fruits and veggies are kinda my BFFs these days...
Six things I could never do without
1 My faith
2 Forgiveness and Hope
3 My friends and family
4 Laughter AND Fun
5 Good food, good wine and a good book or movie
6 Soap...and smell goods

Seriously?? I'm a girl... I cannot just pick and pack 6 items! :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Finishing the race we started doesn't matter...don't mind coming in last... just want to hear "well done" and be a mess and spent and happy and wore the hell out!! :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday night should always be date night! When I have one, I am at happy hour, then whatever, or a concert or at the movies, having coffee with a friend, or watching a red box movie at home and if home, i try to get the laundry /housework done so I have all weekend to play. . :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Jesus is my BFF. If you can handle that, then we are golden!. :) oh... and I love Disney...and flowers for no apparent reason... and I am still kinda afraid of the dark... lol
You should message me if
You believe in Jesus Christ as your personal Savior and you actively practice your Christian faith... please do not say you are just a "believer"... even Satan and all of his demons believe in Jesus! That's why he works so hard to take you out!!
You are authentic in your profile.
If you are really (honestly) ready to date.
You really are drama, debt and drug free.
You are SINGLE! Seriously! Seems obvious for a dating site, but so many cheaters out there! sheesh!
Have fun, be safe, and be Blessed!
Stay sane - stay safe! Good Luck to you! May the Lord bless you and keep you in his Tender Care always and forever. Xo hugs
The two of us