50Manhattan, United States
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My self-summary
I've been in New York long enough to think strategically about where to stand on the subway platform depending on where the exit to the street is at my desired stop, if you know what I mean.
Barbecues are good, I like cooking outdoors with a fire, there's nothing better than grilling after a summer day at the beach.
I was once a vegetarian for a few years and then I went to a barbecue and ate all the chicken, it was awful.
I enjoy looking at good work from shoes to cars to art and everything in between.
Museums and galleries are interesting to me.
I grew up in South Africa and spent a few years in London at various points in my life. I have travelled a fair bit.
Chow hounding or fine dining, depending on the circumstance.
I don't drink but I I'm perfectly happy if you do. I sometime dance but I have to be encouraged.
I have a dark sense of humor.
These are absurd times we're living through and being able to laugh at the situation is extremely healthy.
A good friend of mine used to say, "if you don't laugh, you cry".
Life is bitter sweet and nuanced, there are so many shades of grey between the black and the white.
This is not me. I am more than some words on a online dating site.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, friends and family, surfing, making collages, watching tv or a movie.
I’m really good at
tossing rocks across lakes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Super Sad True Love Story. King Leopold's Ghost.
The Guardian, Vox, The Nation, Daily Beast, Slate, Salon. (I've read more about Trump in the last six months than I actually care to admit).
Good Fellas, Boogie Nights, Annie Hall, Sexy Beast
Premier League Football, Broad City, Stranger Things, Bojack Horseman.
The Clash, The XX, Joy Division/New Order, Bob Dylan, Amadou and Mariam, Mano Chao, Elbow, Bob Marley, Stevie Wonder, Radio Nova really rocks. Reggae got soul, funk and disco too, 80's music makes me nostalgic.
Six things I could never do without
iphones are pretty amazing.
The ocean.
Democracy is nice, right?
Good food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How little compassion Trump and his cohorts have, my next meal and how insignificant we humans are in the really big picture, you know, in the the universe.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I clean up nice.
You should message me if
You have a good joke to tell me
The two of us