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My self-summary
TL;DR: I am an optimistic, creative, fiercely independent and non-conformist. I travel at every opportunity, about eight weeks per year. I think sex is just as healthy and natural as laughter and should be shared just as joyfully. I will enjoy and value your companionship but not be exclusive.

I enjoy ongoing, semi-regular interactions with creatives and free thinkers, with a goal to develop both friendship and intimacy. Single women, partnered women and couples are all good with me. I cannot sustain a full-fledged secondary relationship, but do prefer forming a connection to straight hookup.

Really, no expectations or obligations except to communicate clearly, be open and have fun. I prize curiosity, authenticity, growth mindset and intellect.

HSV2+. Look it up.

Now for the rest of it :)
What I’m doing with my life
)'( If it doesn't feel magical, you're not doing it right.

Burner, designer, foodie, classical pianist, geek, biker, world traveler, storyteller. Happily partnered and ethically non-monogamous.
I’m really good at
Being straightforward and to the point, open and clear communication, keeping my promises.
The first things people usually notice about me
Best seen through the eyes of the beholder.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Nothing in the mainstream media interests me. The rest is something to talk about when we meet, no spoilers here.
Six things I could never do without
Not having to answer pointless questions.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
... getting myself and others into some kind of trouble :)
On a typical Friday night I am
... getting myself and others into some kind of trouble :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
True story - one day I almost bought two llamas. Even had the names picked out for them - "Osama bin Llama" and "Hoochie Llama".
You should message me if
* You are a woman or a couple, straight or bi
* You "get" ethical non-monogamy; I'm not in a teaching mood
* If you think you are fabulous (why sell yourself short?) then definitely do write
* You are tall and/or have a larger-than-life personality - I have a thing for both
* You are versatile - you are as comfortable slumming it in a tent as you are in a designer dress and high heels
* You have no problems attracting other quality people, and are preferably dating some now
* You are strong, independent, have an exciting full life and can navigate an ongoing connection with another busy and interesting person
* You are a chronic 420 addict and want to smoke a bowl together, preferably naked :)
The two of us