OKC does actually work from time to time, as there is at least one really worthwhile connection that i have made here.
Books: The Stand, Dracula, Les Miserables, JTHM.
Music: The Dresden Dolls, Chaos Chaos, The Mountain Goats, NIN, VIII Days Clean, Pink Floyd.
A comfy pillow.
make trouble, sit around, cook. I know, sounds odd...