I guess the next thing that gets noticed and surprises people is my intelligence. That can be intimidating to some as they don't seem to expect it. My mother was a PhD in mathematics. The ability to think linearly, laterally, and cylindrically, as well as a semi eidetic memory are genetic gifts I can take no personal credit for. For some reason grammar just wont process though, so I have poor spelling. Probably the ADHD, ADD, or whatever else "they" said I had because public school bored me to death.
Quality people in my life.
To be kind whenever possible, and to remember it's always possible.