53 Portland, United States
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My self-summary
I would say bad boy turned good. 20yrs clean and sober, and all the cognitive change stuff that goes along with it. Part of the process of finding myself was leaning to accept you as you are, so I won't be trying to change you.
What I’m doing with my life
Living life on it's own terms.
I’m really good at
Math, fixing anything mechanical.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm big. My Cherokee name says it all: Yona Equa, Big Bear. I tend to be a bit intimidating to people before they get to know me, I have the "Big Bad Biker" look I'm told. I'm half Danish, so my size comes from my Viking heritage.
I guess the next thing that gets noticed and surprises people is my intelligence. That can be intimidating to some as they don't seem to expect it. My mother was a PhD in mathematics. The ability to think linearly, laterally, and cylindrically, as well as a semi eidetic memory are genetic gifts I can take no personal credit for. For some reason grammar just wont process though, so I have poor spelling. Probably the ADHD, ADD, or whatever else "they" said I had because public school bored me to death.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Don't read fiction, I can get interested in about anything factual or technical. Love documentaries. As far as the rest goes I would say I like "good" movies, shows, music, and food. The quality is whats important to me.
The six things I could never do without
My Higher Power, (who does not require you to believe in him or you burn in hell.)
Self confidence.
Inner peace.
Quality people in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How beautiful and terrible the world is all at the same time, and how I can do my part to advance the beautiful.
To be kind whenever possible, and to remember it's always possible.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lol, working. Graveyard shift makes a social life tough.
You should message me if
You are looking for a friend to do things with, and an understanding that any relationship will naturally progress on its own, feel free to contact me. If you are looking for just a relationship, I have a core belief that my partner will be my best friend and I'm probably not the one.