45Alexandria, United States
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My self-summary
I am always interested in chatting with interesting people, especially people who are open-minded and/or in an alternative lifestyle. I am polyamorous. if you know what that means without looking it up, we will probably get along.

I also chat on yahoo and gchat, so let me know your ID there if you want to chat.

Other than being poly, I am a very normal guy who likes many of the typical things that other people like -- movies, shooting pool, going out to eat, meeting new people, and just going out and having fun and trying new things.

I was very accurately described once as "sweet but naughty." Other words that describe me would be open-minded, passionate, intelligent, sensual, fun, laid-back, and creative.

I am also a HUGE animal lover -- I have 2 dogs now. I often think of my next career move having something to do with animals. I have a few ideas, but I haven't made that move yet.

Other things I like are road trips and being outdoors especially hiking and viewing nature.
What I’m doing with my life
My relationships and friendships are very central in my life, but of course I have to pay bills too, so I have a great job in Washington DC, working with a nonprofit org.
I’m really good at
listening - I love to chat online or in person and hearing about other people's lives and what makes them tick.

I wish I had a dollar every time someone told me that I have a calming effect on them. I guess I am the ultimate Type B personality.

I am also a people-watcher. I am also good at writing, driving, giving massage, helping people in whatever way I can, cooking and travelling. I own 2 timeshares and enjoy travelling all over for work and for fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
People say my eyes -- blue if you can't tell from my photos, or my butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In most things, I believe variety is the spice of life. Thus, I enjoy an extraordinary wide range of things. I am likely to go to a hard rock concert one night, and the theatre the next.

I love comtemporary American fiction (John Irving is a favorite author and Prayer for Owen Meany his best book). I saw him in DC a few months ago on his new book tour. Now, I like him even more!! Check out his books, if you haven't already!!

I also love history, current affairs, and historical fiction. I am currently feeling the need for some new good authors or genres to read, so if you have any suggestions, please feel free to let me know.

Dramas, thrillers, and suspense are my favorite movies. I haven't seen anything recently. This time of year is horrible for movies. Has anything even close to decent come out recently??

I like all music, except country. Some of my favorites include The Doors, U2, smashing pumpkins, and anything hard alternative like Rise Against and Linkin Park.

I like all types of food too, but my favorites are italian and anything spicy.
Six things I could never do without
Special friends
My dogs
The Internet
My cell phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Wow. What a question. What am I not thinking about? My brain is usually going 1000 miles an hour.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am probably out on a date. Maybe with you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Apparently I am the only person on the planet who doesn't love Cards Against Humanity.
You should message me if
you are open-minded, curious about polyamory or other alt lifestyles, or just want to talk to a nice guy.
The two of us