48Arvada, United States
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My self-summary
BLUF: hot poly guy in comitted open relationship and dating solo. If that works for you, please read on.

Life leads us in many directions - many of which we could never anticipate, plan for, or set goals around. Above all, I am comitted to exploring the path that lies before me with love in my heart and a smile on my face. I'm not afraid if that path goes left when the rest of the world goes right, or when it clearly points me back up the on-ramp of mainstream.

Happy to tell you my story over a coffee or cocktail. I have nothing to hide and believe in open, honest communication as the foundation for healthy relationships. I am interested in meeting new people for food or drinks, outdoor activities, intelligent conversation, laughing and enjoying life! Happy hour anyone?
What I’m doing with my life
Lately: swimming, road biking novice, hiking, live music, cocktails, pubs, backyard BBQ, Netflix series' and the occaissonal book.

Less lately: trail running, martial arts, backpacking, camping, music festivals, motorcycle touring, boating, wakeboarding, water skiing, mountain biking, rock climbing.

Work: recently took on development of a sustainability program for a food start-up after 20 years of consulting in corporate sustainability.

I have also worked as a bartender on and off over the years - most notably at the Scarlet Ranch when it was downtown.
I’m really good at
Making out - seriously! I've got oral skills. I am also a relentless optimist and extremely resourceful when creative solutions are called for.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Many books, eclectic movie passions, no cable... I love to cook and go to foodie restaurants, have a huge inventory of favorite movies and bands, and like to go see live music when I can. Summer nights at Red Rocks are one of the greatest benefits of living here.
Six things I could never do without
Whole foods I can cook and enjoy eating
A beautiful world to love and live on
People to watch and romanticize about

A personality that thinks it is unique, to struggle with and learn from in my journey back to oneness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Engaged non-attachment and mindfulness; and possibly the shape and color of your underwear
On a typical Friday night I am
Finishing up the week's work; and then hungry for conversation, cocktails and laughter (and maybe a big mess of Mexican food)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was a Casa Bonita diver in 1994 - with video to prove it! Absolutely the best $7.50 an hour I ever made. Pretty much learned to rock climb in there. Not much of a secret ;-)
You should message me if
You got this far and may still be interested... and you like wine. Must like red wine. Check out the Q&A for more deets.
The two of us