Poynerj
46 San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
Cultures, flavors, and landscapes have etched lasting memories while traveling. But now my focus is with good friends, an engaging career, and a renewed bond to musical harmony. With a coffee mug and a zeal for a healthy lifestyle, I hope to squeeze even more meaning and joy from the precious time that we are given. I seek a special woman to share this wondrous journey.
What I’m doing with my life
When not improving business software workflow experience for people unfortunate enough to have to use it, I spend time with friends, sing some chords or pedal down the peninsula and back. But I would also like to find a more meaningful way to impact our society. When I was a kid, most people had little time or energy for the people they cared about. I thought if only I could create something to do the work for them or teach others how to frame problems and needs, they could enjoy life more. I've jumped back and forth into design and psychology, but despite these pursuits, friends mostly remember me for my music (piano improvisation or singing). Hmmm... can I still be a rock star?
I’m really good at
Enjoying the moment. Explaining things. Bullshit. Puns for every occasion. Laughing at my mistakes. Genuine compliments. Loyal support.
The first things people usually notice about me
Warm smile. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books/authors: There are many books I have enjoyed from fantasy to mystery to romance to history and discovery. Yet no favorites really come to mind. I have interesting but ultimately dry research titles like 'Emotional Intelligence' and 'Flourishing' on my shelf. I'm open to suggestion.

Movies/directors: Galaxy Quest, What Dreams May Come, Sex Lies and Videotape, Princess Bride, Crouching Tiger..., Spinal Tap, Zorro the Gay Blade, Airplane, LOTR trilogy, George Clooney films, Clint Eastwood films.

Shows: Just say no to TV. A few cable shows have their moments, but I'd rather watch a film when in front of a screen.

Music: Paul Van Dyk, Armin Van Buuren, Frank, Ella, Billie, U2, Thompson Twins, Cure, Duran Duran, English Beat, Shins.

Food: Sushi, orange bell peppers, roasted almonds, chocolate, coffee, carrot juice, pears, ice cream.
The six things I could never do without
I thought all we need is love? Maybe a few more things: bicycling, sunshine, traveling, singing, friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How people derive meaning...What enables greed and corruption to be so rampant... What people really need to be comfortable.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having a dinner or drink with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'd rather keep it a mystery... ask me and find out.
You should message me if
What I write speaks to you. You remain open and affected by life. You create art or music or write. You enjoy complex emotions. You seek a deep and meaningful connection. You avoid cluttering your life with possessions. Your friends and family come first in your life. You are physically active and healthy.
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