I enjoy attending trivia nights, but am not particularly great at answering any questions correctly. Instead, I bring my humor and charm. I love to read, I enjoy being a couch potato in front of some decent or terrible tv, and I really like long walks. I dread commuting with a passion every day, not even the greatest podcast in all the world can change that.
I'm a *fabulous* procrastinator, a decent multitasker, and I'm terrible at leaving my bed before noon on Saturdays.
Autumn and winter are tied for my favorite season. I enjoy Oreos only when they are stale.
I used to be a teacher, love being a student again, and am unsure about what the future brings (and trying to be ok with it).
Sometimes I do yoga, sometimes I swim laps, sometimes I read a book, and sometimes I drink beer. Sometimes I go to be early (let's be honest: most of the time -- I'm a grandma) and sometimes not. Sometimes I am silly, but I can veer towards serious often. Always kind.
Making cards/writing snail mail. It's an art that I want to keep around!
Or, probably that I'm a confident lady person.
Movies: I'm sorry to all you film buffs, but I'm not picky. My favorite B-list horror movie is The Descent, if that tells you anything.
Shows: STRANGER THINGS, The OA, just starting to watch The Wire. I'm a big fan of lazy Sundays with bagels and beer and shows and video games and pjs all day.
Music: I do love some 90's hiphop, rap, and boom bap. De La Soul, Big Pun, and Nice & Smooth are being consistently played these days. Pete Philly and Perquisite, Tor, RJD2, Ratatat, and Girltalk make me tap my foot. Justin Timberlake. TI. Big Boi. Frank Ocean. Johnny Polygon. Drake.
St. Vincent, Cold Speck, Paul Simon and Joni Mitchell. Mountain Man, Glasser, The Tallest Man on Earth. Jose Gonzalez. Paul Kalkbrenner.
I think maybe one consistent genre that gets played in a variety of moods and times is Jazz. Nothing really past the 70's/80s though...lots of Ella, Django, Bill Evans, and the like.
Food: It's yummy.
2. Clothing that makes me warm in the winter.
3. The kind of book that is so good the pages turn on their own
4. Creativity (not necessarily my own)
5.The feeling of Sunday morning laziness
6. More warm clothing.
Social justice is yer thing.
Making dinner and playing scrabble sounds like an excellent plan for a night.
You can make me laugh. I'm most attracted to the funny guy.
Disclosure: I am not interested in "ethically nonmonagomous" relationships.
Here's an example of a message I would not enjoy and would not reply to: "Let's be real, you think I'm hot I think you're hot and we both enjoy a good fuck. Let's grab a drink and see what happens." <- real message I received that I did not enjoy and did not respond to.