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My self-summary
80% Good/great guy.

20% less than perfect.
What I’m doing with my life
We can discuss this in person. (probably the point of OK Cupid)
I’m really good at

Figuring things - and people - out.

Hugging and kissing


Making chocolate chip cookies


hanging out on a lazy day. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd love to say, but it's likely best to let them speak for themselves. (I speak a lot; I probably don't need to put more words out there) ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
So many!

Books include the standard: Catcher In the Rye; To Kill a Mockingbird, The Picture of Dorian Gray, The Little Prince; and perhaps less conventionally: Listen, Little Man by Wilhelm Reich; To Russia With Fries by George Cohon and Democracy in America by Alexis de Toqueville. I also loved Tina Fey's "BossyPants", many of David Sedaris' work, Brendan Gill's "Here at the New Yorker" and many, many more. :)

Movies: Again! Where do I begin! Goodfellas; Parenthood, Superman; Get Real, Beautiful Thing, Billy Elliot, Babette's Feast Groundhog Day and so many more!

Shows: Again... where to begin! Billy Elliot, Pride and Prejudice, Jersey Boys, Avenue Q, Wicked (I'm kind of cliche) as the tip of the iceberg and ballet!

Unless they mean TV shows: Breaking Bad; Six Feet Under; Arrested Development; Archer; Everwood and gilmore girls (I am gay, after all); Sex and the City (ditto); Everybody Loves Raymond; Action and "Beggars and Choosers".

Music: C'mon!! MOR (Middle of the road) I love Carly Simon, Carole King, The Carpenters, I love Jazz, classical, rock, blues. Black female singers, for some reason always "filled" my sould with joy; I don't know why: Aretha, Gladys Knight, Patti Labelle. Anyway... I love music. Not so much the hip-hop. yolo and "rap" usually irritates me: Too angry and jilted.

Food! Love it! I'm not a great cook and I can be set in my ways sometimes, but I'm usually very open to new food experiences, food "stylings" and nutrition. I'm a "bad" eater, though, left on my own.
Six things I could never do without
I couldn't do without good people/family/friends, good bad old tv and movies, talk, laughter, reading material and, hopefully, love. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How things work, what motivates people, how to make people happier, how to make me happier... but I try to not focus on any one thing too, too much.

I have been spending more time lately on the idea of a great guy to build a life with. That'd be nice. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Either with friends, family, at a performance of some kind or alone. I am not typically anywhere in any given week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll admit most anything, sadly. lol.... But you'd need to figure out what to ask before I'd answer. ;)
You should message me if
You should message me if you are serious about having a new person in your life. Ideally I'd love a partner, but anyone who is sincere and genuinely willing to make an effort to build a friendship is ok in my book. I want to grow with someone. Not everyone can be Prince Charming, and that's OK... but if one of you happens to ride a white horse and find it cantering towards me ... ;)
The two of us