PS the below labels me as "sloppy" I'm actually really organized and clean. Also I'm very "wholesome" I like doing family stuff, knitting and baking. My "kink" doesn't make me unwholesome nor does me being laid back about other people's cleaning habits make me "sloppy". These things can coexist regardless of the OKC robot's algorithms.
PPS- For your opening line: Don't call me pretty, beautiful etc....I'm looking for some one who is interested in more than my looks, thanks!