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My self-summary
My husband used to travel fairly frequently and the nights got long and lonely when he was away. I am incredibly fortunate (and completely spoiled!) in that my guy always wants to see me get off whether he can be there or not. Initially, we agreed that exploring my interest in and playing with other women would be a great way to keep me and our bed warm but that evolved into my meeting up with both men and women for adventure and playtime. My husband does not travel nearly as much any more, but we both appreciated how much I enjoyed meeting new people and how much he enjoyed me enjoying it. So we continued with the fun. Nothing sexier than a girl getting ready for a first date... or coming home to her husband with face flushed, an earring missing and her hair and clothing just slightly out of place. We are interested in a variety of scenarios including one on one play between me and other people or threesomes in which my husband participates. We would also be interested in playing with other couples (either together or just me.) Ideally, I'd love to find a longer term boyfriend to spend time with both in and out of the bedroom. I am less interested in one time encounters.

While I know this sounds like an “open” relationship, we think of it as more open minded than open. What we do when it comes to sex with other people, we do together. Even when my husband isn't there physically, I share the experience with him through recounting details and through videos or sound recordings when partners agree. My husband does not play with people without me. Yeah, like I said. I am spoiled. But he is a major voyeur and finds me getting off with other people one of his biggest turn-ons. So this works out nicely for us.

In more general self-summary terms, I am smart, funny, attractive, and pretty damn charming. I'm blonde, curvy, have a great smile. I'm a size 12 on a good day, a size 14 after a good holiday. I am not a girly girl but sensual and sexy. I like to look pretty. I am open minded, love to watch movies, love to laugh and really enjoy getting to know people and understanding how they have become the people they are. A generally nice, normal, caring, easy to get along with and down to earth person.
What I’m doing with my life
I work too much (like most everyone else). Try to find my fun and adventure where I can (also like most everyone else). I spend equal parts of time at home and at play. And travel whenever I have the opportunity.
I’m really good at
I'm a good cook, a great conversationalist and I fuck like I am about to go extinct. I'm also good at saying things people don't expect.
The first things people usually notice about me
My boobs unless I am walking away from you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love classic books and movies with subtitles. I like Californication and nature TV shows. Food and music preferences are vast and varied but sushi, mac and cheese, bacon and Johnny Cash are some favorites.
Six things I could never do without
A hot dress, a sexy adventure, my amazing husband and a notebook to write in (the actual spiral bound kind). Great movies and good beer help keep a smile on my face, too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex. Why we do it. How we do it. Why we always want to do it. What is wrong with those people who don't want to do it!
On a typical Friday night I am
Often out (usually at a local bar). Sometimes unwinding at home (usually with a beer or glass of wine in hand).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I just told the entire OKC community I will fuck without strings while my husband watches. I'd say I am pretty much an open book. But if I have to put something here... Oh! I peed on my hand before. But only accidentally. I am not into pee. Or any of the other "ickies."
You should message me if
You think the relationship I have and the scenario I described are more refreshing than strange. You can think it is a little strange, too.

I put thought into my profile. I want something specific. I hope you will put some thought into any message you send. One line inquiries probably won't get a response back. You are going to have to do better than "Hey." I don't need to hear that you want to have sex with me. Tell me why you want to date me.
The two of us