While I know this sounds like an “open” relationship, we think of it as more open minded than open. What we do when it comes to sex with other people, we do together. Even when my husband isn't there physically, I share the experience with him through recounting details and through videos or sound recordings when partners agree. My husband does not play with people without me. Yeah, like I said. I am spoiled. But he is a major voyeur and finds me getting off with other people one of his biggest turn-ons. So this works out nicely for us.
In more general self-summary terms, I am smart, funny, attractive, and pretty damn charming. I'm blonde, curvy, have a great smile. I'm a size 12 on a good day, a size 14 after a good holiday. I am not a girly girl but sensual and sexy. I like to look pretty. I am open minded, love to watch movies, love to laugh and really enjoy getting to know people and understanding how they have become the people they are. A generally nice, normal, caring, easy to get along with and down to earth person.
I put thought into my profile. I want something specific. I hope you will put some thought into any message you send. One line inquiries probably won't get a response back. You are going to have to do better than "Hey." I don't need to hear that you want to have sex with me. Tell me why you want to date me.